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writes:Hello. I'm new here and very desperate for my relationship to work. I have a girl and she's in college. We have been together for 4 years. Our relationship is a serious one as well. We even planned our future out together. I love her so much and she loves me the same.Recently, she openly told me she was having an affair with a guy at her college. I understood she was confused and didn't get mad at her. She did not have sex with him. It seems to me she's looking for something she doesn't have. I really want our relationship to be like it use to be. How do I help my love realize that I'm all she needs?
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reader, Jon1230  +, writes (10 December 2008):
 Its not really as easy as a simple answer.
You need to be yourself and explain to her just what she means to you.Dont be too soft though as you should make it clear to her that you wont tolerate any cheating etc.
The only answer i can really see is to keep the relationship fresh..make little suprises like candles in a dark room while u watch a movie or the odd bunch of flowers.Just remember and invent new romantic ways in which to keep things sweet and special and she will always remember those.
Hope it helps
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