I'm receiving threats to tell about my secret relationship...
Q. Hi I am 23 muslim girl from Leicester living with my parents. Nowadays I am recieving withheld number calls and threatening text messages. I had a relationship without my parents' acknowledgement. Now a guy knows. He has threatened to ki...
A. 16 August 2005: Tell your parents, they will always stay true to you because they love you, make sure you tell them everything and that you have learnt from your mistakes and it won't happen again, i do think it is serious but i think whoever is sending the ... (read in full...)
We really hit it off, but would he be interested in a relationship?
Q. I've just got back from a holiday where I met this guy. I met him at the same place last year and really liked him, but this year we hit it off. On my last night we were all cuddles, kisses and of course, snogs. His friend that was with him said...
A. 16 August 2005: i would give it a go, what have you got to loose, and if it does work out you could even move to be closer together, at least you have the space between you to know if it will work, it will make the best foundations for a solid and steady ... (read in full...)
I was away 6 months. Now I don't understand whether he wants me or not!
Q. Hi! I am a 22 year old girl and I have been single for over two years now. After lots of dating I finally started to hit it off with this cute, smart, and loving guy. I was very happy and excited. The problem was that I had to leave town to study ...
A. 16 August 2005: if he has not been in touch he might want to leave it where it was, but he could also have really felt hurt and did not know how to talk to you about it. Sort it out by talking to him he might feel relieved that you still want to be with him maybe ... (read in full...)
I don't hear from my boyfriend for weeks at a time because he's "too tired" to call...
Q. Lately, my boyfriend is working a lot, but he goes weeks without calling me at all. He says he is too tired at night when he gets home, but he doesn't call during the day or in the morning before he goes and he can't take 30 seconds aftter he gets ...
A. 16 August 2005: yes i would get a new boyfriend, if this man cannot take one minute out of his busy life for you then he doesnot deserve you, dont bother with him he obviously is not bothered about you, move on and get someone who really cares who can take the time ... (read in full...)
So scared of being hurt again that I pushed away a fantastic girl!
Q. I have recently met a fantastic girl. But due to a badly ending previous relationship, I have found myself running scared. I have kept the poor girl hanging on, by telling her yes, I'd like a relationship, to only break it off the next day. Thro...
A. 16 August 2005: Go to her and tell the truth, tell her you have been hurt in the past and that your scared of it happening again, she will probably be relieved that its something you both can work at and that its not your idea of a joke, shes thinking youre taking ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my best friend that I'm in love with him?
Q. Hi, I am a 16 year old woman and I've been in love with my best friend for a while now. He's 20. I'm not sure if I should tell him and risk our friendship if he doesnt feel the same, or if i should keep it to myself. Please help!...
A. 16 August 2005: I would not tell him how you feel, if he fancys you then he will tell you. He probably already knows you fancy him without even saying anything because hes your best friend and he does know you better than anyone else.Believe me i have be there and ... (read in full...)
Falling for my boss... but I'm only thirteen!
Q. Hi I am only 13 years old, which is young. Recently I have found myself falling for my part-time boss. I dont know whether this is love or lust. He is about 36 and I know it probably won't be serious. I am getting mixed messages from him. ...
A. 16 August 2005: If your getting mixed messages then i'm sorry to say i think he doesnot fancy you, but he feels you fancy him and now he feels awkward about it. Does this sound funny to you, 13 year old (you)and a 36 yearold(boss)together in a relationship, yes! ... (read in full...)
Should I wait 'til I leave school to pursue anything with the PE teaching assistant?
Q. I'm 17 years old and this is my last year at school. Last year we had a very young and very hot student PE teacher who I found myself attracted to. I bizarrely started to think he liked me as well, as he would ask me to stay behind after class an...
A. 16 August 2005: I say wait, if its love it will still be there when you leave school, and if it is not, then a new love interest will come along in no time and then you will be ready and willing to grab it with both hands.My motto is never rush into anything that ... (read in full...)
I want to break up with my girlfriend, but she's emotionally blackmailing me and threatening self harm...
Q. I really need to get out of my relationship for my own health and for my future that I could have, but my girlfriend won't let me have. She is emotionally blackmailing me saying she will hurt herself if I leave her and I am the most unhappy I have ...
A. 16 August 2005: its a hard situation your in but there is only one way it will go and that is to brake up and both move on with your lives. Shes blackmailing you to get what she wants because it has worked in the past and she doesent understand why it is not ... (read in full...)
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