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Three in a bed and we were all drunk. I swear I thought it was my boyfriend touching me!

Q.   I have done a really bad thing and I just don't know what to do! The other night my Boyfriend of 4 and a half years and myself stayed with one of our very close male friends. We shared his bed, which we have done before. I was in the middle. We w...

A.   10 November 2005: hey i don't think it was rape if a woman out herself into that situation.it is one thing to wear tight clothing or walk alone at night but you were in the bed.and why were you going to even have sex with your boyfriend in the same bed someone else ... (read in full...)

I had sex with a guy I don't even love. Then his girlfriend blackmailed me to my boyfriend...

Q.   I dont know what to do. Me and my boyfriend were only dating for about 3 months but we were so in love. It was like love at first sight when we first met. Then he told me he wouldn't be able to come here anymore until winter was over (he lives in ...

A.   10 November 2005: you deserve it. you sound so young and confused. why are you sleeping with other people and you are "so in love" people like you are too horny to be "committed" get help before you hurt someone again. he can do better than you.what would you do if ... (read in full...)

He's acting like we're over, but I can't get a straight answer out of him...

Q.   Hi there. I am in a weird situation. My b/f of about 2 years just stopped speaking to me and all of his friends. Nobody can get through on his cell phone, because he keeps ignoring the calls. I sent him a text message asking to meet, and he said ...

A.   29 October 2005: take your time.sort things out for yourself the same way he is doing.ask if you can really tolerate waiting for him a little while.you have been together for 2 years so i am sure you can wait for a little while longer until things reveal ... (read in full...)

Is sex always this... messy?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend had a very active sex life. We decided to change from using condoms to her going on the pill so there would be no delay when we were in the mood. Unfortunately it seems to have had the opposite effect. The main reason is f...

A.   29 October 2005: have a warm wet soapy face towel(or baby wipes)by the bed and lay on top of a big towel.whoevers on top should grab the wipes or the face towel and start cleaning once you are done!you can use the big towel to wipe someone also.then neatly place ... (read in full...)

After our "one nighter" the girl I love fell pregnant, but she doesn't know how I feel!

Q.   I had a one-night-stand with my best friend, and now she's pregnant. I've been in love with her since we were 15... and it's seven years later and she still doesn't know. I was so happy when she kissed me. Then she told me it was a 'one time thing' ...

A.   29 October 2005: be careful. make sure you tell her how you feel since you can't just walk away and you will know her for along time so you might as well be honest. don't expect too much though. and never use the baby to be with her. the child shouldn't even be ... (read in full...)

I caught my 10-year-old daughter masturbating!

Q.   I hope you can help me with this because i just dont know what to do! I have a 10 year old daughter who is very happy- go lucky and has lots of friends. Last week i walked into her bedroom to find her straddling her bedcorner and thrusting. I told ...

A.   29 October 2005: atleast it is her and not some bot. i know you may think you are promoting her to have sex but you are not.and wether you talk or not she will do whatever she wants to do. it will be plenty of oppurtunities. talk to her and enlighten her. please ... (read in full...)

Should I have a go with a woman of 39?

Q.   Hiya, I'm 16 years old and I'm dating a woman of 39. She looks good. We are always having a laugh. She's always there for me and we are great together. We're talking about making a proper go of things. She doesn't have any children, and is...

A.   29 October 2005: hey i pray that you do what makes you happy and learn from it.wether it is good or bad.we all have to experience the things we have problems with the most.just make sure you seriously evaluate the maturity level of yourself and the other ... (read in full...)

My partner's pregnant 'fling' is threatening to keep the baby from him!

Q.   My boyfriend cheated on me with this girl as soon as he met her in March. She got pregnant that same month. They both said it was protected and the condom broke. They claimed it was an accident, but now that she found out he was in a serious ...

A.   29 October 2005: this is to the emotionally damaged beyond repair guy who called me a dummy.this "girlfriend" has been offered marriage before and after this.and a baby mama aint entitled to anything either.the baby is!and it is not about money and she doesn't have ... (read in full...)

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