If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him?
Q. If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him? I wish I knew these sorts of things intuitively without having to ask people. I have been diagnosed with Asperger syndrom...
A. 11 January 2012: Maybe the fact that you telling me the 1...2...3.... rule is okay but the tone of voice you imply that maybe it isn't. I feel very put down and yes my feeling are very hurt. Why didn't everybody tell me about the 1...2....3.... rule on the first ... (read in full...)
If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him?
Q. If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him? I wish I knew these sorts of things intuitively without having to ask people. I have been diagnosed with Asperger syndrom...
A. 11 January 2012: I feel like I wrote the wrong question and this whole discussion has gone the wrong way. Since half of the answers were wrongly dedicated to the presumption that I have a problem with staring a women's breasts. There is no way to explain how ... (read in full...)
If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him?
Q. If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him? I wish I knew these sorts of things intuitively without having to ask people. I have been diagnosed with Asperger syndrom...
A. 11 January 2012: That last message from ChaliceOdamnation was very ignorant and contained a lot of incorrect assumptions that help to perpetuate prejudice toward people with disabilities. Let's all get along here and say nice things to each. Okay? Thank you.... (read in full...)
If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him?
Q. If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him? I wish I knew these sorts of things intuitively without having to ask people. I have been diagnosed with Asperger syndrom...
A. 10 January 2012: Honeypie wrote:
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no. I would look a few second and then find something else to look at.
JUST because you can SEE something doesn't mean you have to STARE. I think that is pretty simple. It comes down to what is SOCIALLY accepted. STARING is... (read in full...)
If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him?
Q. If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him? I wish I knew these sorts of things intuitively without having to ask people. I have been diagnosed with Asperger syndrom...
A. 10 January 2012: Chigirl wrote:
"' If you want to have a look you need to look when it isn't as obvious what you are looking at.'
Still confused?"
My response:
NO Chigirl I am not confused anymore. Everybody here is saying that it is okay to look, ... (read in full...)
If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him?
Q. If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him? I wish I knew these sorts of things intuitively without having to ask people. I have been diagnosed with Asperger syndrom...
A. 10 January 2012: Hi, Cindycares. Remember that the question is whether or not it's okay to look at all.
You wrote:
"So...Women also show their hair....Do you think it is OK fixing these body parts intently ? Focusing on them ? For more than seconds"
... (read in full...)
If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him?
Q. If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him? I wish I knew these sorts of things intuitively without having to ask people. I have been diagnosed with Asperger syndrom...
A. 10 January 2012: You asked me: "As of the moment all you ask is if it os ok to look at her chest. No, it is not okay. What part of that is confusing to you?"
Well one thing that would be confusing to me is that women often show cleavage. On a logical level cl... (read in full...)
If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him?
Q. If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him? I wish I knew these sorts of things intuitively without having to ask people. I have been diagnosed with Asperger syndrom...
A. 10 January 2012: Most of the answers here respond to the question as if I was asking about the appropriateness of staring. And that seems more obvious to me than peoples feelings on less than staring which is a much more confusing subject matter. ... (read in full...)
If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him?
Q. If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him? I wish I knew these sorts of things intuitively without having to ask people. I have been diagnosed with Asperger syndrom...
A. 9 January 2012: TrancedRhythmEar: Well wouldn't women be better suited to answer questions about what women want? Not that I don't appreciate as much input as possible.... (read in full...)
Is not trying to have sex with someone respectful?
Q. Is not trying to have sex with somebody respectful? Somebody was telling me how they knew this guy in college who was really great, etc and wanted her to move away with him. She then told me that he was really respectful because he didn't try to ...
A. 31 August 2010: What is the moral code?... (read in full...)
Is not trying to have sex with someone respectful?
Q. Is not trying to have sex with somebody respectful? Somebody was telling me how they knew this guy in college who was really great, etc and wanted her to move away with him. She then told me that he was really respectful because he didn't try to ...
A. 31 August 2010: Janniepeg I agree with you. ... (read in full...)
Is not trying to have sex with someone respectful?
Q. Is not trying to have sex with somebody respectful? Somebody was telling me how they knew this guy in college who was really great, etc and wanted her to move away with him. She then told me that he was really respectful because he didn't try to ...
A. 31 August 2010: But is it disrespectful to try to have sex with somebody?... (read in full...)
Would you have sympathy for someone who can't have sex?
Q. Do you have sympathy for a person who can't have sex? That is to say somebody who for whatever reason has been unable to obtain sexual activity. Are you able to have concern for the impact such a situation would have on a person?...
A. 30 August 2010: Well if the popular wisdom on the subject holds any water I wouldn't suggest you have sex anytime soon and especially not with somebody who isn't age appropriate.... (read in full...)
Would you have sympathy for someone who can't have sex?
Q. Do you have sympathy for a person who can't have sex? That is to say somebody who for whatever reason has been unable to obtain sexual activity. Are you able to have concern for the impact such a situation would have on a person?...
A. 30 August 2010: Well people give there answers but you never know what their background is and they often have a difficult time providing reasons for their opinions. Since you are at an age of hyper-accelerated intellectual growth I wander what your answer would a ... (read in full...)
He refuses to touch me down there but I don't want to have shame and limitations in my sex life!
Q. Hi there, This is the first time I am asking for help with the sex problem. I would really appreciate your help guys and girls. My boyfriend and I have been together for about couple of month but we have been friends for a year before that. We a...
A. 30 August 2010: He sounds like he has some hang ups with sex or he is not attracted to you. Maybe he has issues. Perhaps you should see a sex therapist together as a way to get to the bottom of whatever it is that makes it so uncomfortable with him touching you. He ... (read in full...)
Would you have sympathy for someone who can't have sex?
Q. Do you have sympathy for a person who can't have sex? That is to say somebody who for whatever reason has been unable to obtain sexual activity. Are you able to have concern for the impact such a situation would have on a person?...
A. 30 August 2010: @watsername23 The way it is described it is sure sounds out this world sometimes. Why are you still a virgin? I have heard that even women don't HAVE to be in love to get the best out of sex.
But then somebody else like @thefuturemrscary will see... (read in full...)
Would you have sympathy for someone who can't have sex?
Q. Do you have sympathy for a person who can't have sex? That is to say somebody who for whatever reason has been unable to obtain sexual activity. Are you able to have concern for the impact such a situation would have on a person?...
A. 30 August 2010: @TheFutureMrsCary Well that is good to know. Why do you think sex is more important to other people then?... (read in full...)
Would you have sympathy for someone who can't have sex?
Q. Do you have sympathy for a person who can't have sex? That is to say somebody who for whatever reason has been unable to obtain sexual activity. Are you able to have concern for the impact such a situation would have on a person?...
A. 30 August 2010: I do have a difficult time putting my trust into people because people were never very sympathetic toward toward me on the sex issue until I brought up the fact that it was for physical reasons.
Of course I could have never done that without ... (read in full...)
Do you have sympathy for a person who can't have sex?
Q. Do you have sympathy for a person who can't have sex? That is to say somebody who for whatever reason has been unable to obtain sexual activity. Are you able to have concern for the impact such a situation would have on a person?...
A. 29 August 2010: Oh because I really feel like people don't care. And how would that make somebody feel?... (read in full...)
Would you have sympathy for someone who can't have sex?
Q. Do you have sympathy for a person who can't have sex? That is to say somebody who for whatever reason has been unable to obtain sexual activity. Are you able to have concern for the impact such a situation would have on a person?...
A. 29 August 2010: @TheFutureMrsCary Good! Why aren't most women as nice as you? The question was purposely ambiguous to include more than one possibility.
So when you say that you could love a guy that was not able to have sex do you mean that you could be in a rel... (read in full...)
I'm clueless on the ethics of sex
Q. Assume that I am an alien from another planet that know nothing at all about sex. In fact I don't know anything about sex. I have not had sexual intercourse and I am 29 years old. For religious reasons I have abstained from seeing prostitutes and ...
A. 3 August 2010: You think that porn is as good and safer than a prostitute? I have not even thought of that.... (read in full...)
I'm clueless on the ethics of sex
Q. Assume that I am an alien from another planet that know nothing at all about sex. In fact I don't know anything about sex. I have not had sexual intercourse and I am 29 years old. For religious reasons I have abstained from seeing prostitutes and ...
A. 3 August 2010: Hello, Staytogether.com. Won't most of those negative side effects be erased if I saw escorts rather than prostitutes?... (read in full...)
I'm clueless on the ethics of sex
Q. Assume that I am an alien from another planet that know nothing at all about sex. In fact I don't know anything about sex. I have not had sexual intercourse and I am 29 years old. For religious reasons I have abstained from seeing prostitutes and ...
A. 3 August 2010: Hello, Gabrielle Stoker, Let me ask you. How long did most of those casual relationships that you had last? What in your opinion broke them apart? Did they get boring? ... (read in full...)
I'm clueless on the ethics of sex
Q. Assume that I am an alien from another planet that know nothing at all about sex. In fact I don't know anything about sex. I have not had sexual intercourse and I am 29 years old. For religious reasons I have abstained from seeing prostitutes and ...
A. 2 August 2010: Really? Really? Really? Swear to God/gods? Pinky finger swear? Well why don't people sound like my next door neighbors when they meet up with their daughter? Not to be skeptical but airports aren't that noisy. lol.... (read in full...)
I'm clueless on the ethics of sex
Q. Assume that I am an alien from another planet that know nothing at all about sex. In fact I don't know anything about sex. I have not had sexual intercourse and I am 29 years old. For religious reasons I have abstained from seeing prostitutes and ...
A. 2 August 2010: "Sex is great when it's right, but it is also not all it's cracked up to be."
But I have heard that sex can be so good that's almost like agony. The feeling of ecstasy overwhelms the body and makes the person feel like their is more pleasure... (read in full...)
I'm clueless on the ethics of sex
Q. Assume that I am an alien from another planet that know nothing at all about sex. In fact I don't know anything about sex. I have not had sexual intercourse and I am 29 years old. For religious reasons I have abstained from seeing prostitutes and ...
A. 2 August 2010: Hi Ceberus. "Like dirtball explained the act of sex itself, while great, is only part of what makes it so joyous. The emotional connection etc. is just as important." So I must ask because I don't understand. Are you saying that without the ... (read in full...)
I'm clueless on the ethics of sex
Q. Assume that I am an alien from another planet that know nothing at all about sex. In fact I don't know anything about sex. I have not had sexual intercourse and I am 29 years old. For religious reasons I have abstained from seeing prostitutes and ...
A. 2 August 2010: Thank you Cerberus. If you were in my situation and was worried, perhaps with good reason, that you wouldn't have sex for decades, what would you do and why?... (read in full...)
I'm too shallow to overcome her sexual past
Q. My girlfriend of 9 months has slept with lots of partners and i am finding it hard getting over it. I am 20 and she is 18. She has slept with 9 people before me. Her first was when she was 14, she's slept with someone who was 21 when she was 15,...
A. 2 August 2010: I don't understand. What are you jealous of? Do you feel that her past experiences continue to have meaning for her that over shadows her own desire for you? I read all the answers that people gave you and not one seems to provide a very good reason ... (read in full...)
I'm clueless on the ethics of sex
Q. Assume that I am an alien from another planet that know nothing at all about sex. In fact I don't know anything about sex. I have not had sexual intercourse and I am 29 years old. For religious reasons I have abstained from seeing prostitutes and ...
A. 2 August 2010: Thank you, dirtball. Does that really mean you would go decades without sex if you had to and you wouldn't get sexually frustrated? Because I am seriously thinking of losing my religion. out of an almost biological kind of yearning, but I don't know ... (read in full...)
I'm clueless on the ethics of sex
Q. Assume that I am an alien from another planet that know nothing at all about sex. In fact I don't know anything about sex. I have not had sexual intercourse and I am 29 years old. For religious reasons I have abstained from seeing prostitutes and ...
A. 2 August 2010: dirtball, I would rate your answer but I don't want it to bias the other respondants.... (read in full...)
I'm clueless on the ethics of sex
Q. Assume that I am an alien from another planet that know nothing at all about sex. In fact I don't know anything about sex. I have not had sexual intercourse and I am 29 years old. For religious reasons I have abstained from seeing prostitutes and ...
A. 2 August 2010: Thank you, dirtball. Does that really mean you would go decades without sex if you had to and you wouldn't get sexually frustrated? Because I am seriously thinking of losing my religion. out of an almost biological kind of yearning, but I don't know ... (read in full...)
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