Husband took out loans behind my back. How can I ever trust him again?
Q. Found out my other half took out loans behind my back last year without telling me. Said we needed the money but he never told me. Thinks its ok that he kept it from me and wonders why i'm shocked at what he done. He talks about trust but how ca...
A. 5 December 2015: This is considered financial infidelity. It means your husband does not care how his decisions impact you. Creditors look at married couples as earning good or bad credit together, so the problem here is his debt is yours even if you divorce him. ... (read in full...)
How could he treat me like a queen and then block me from facebook and act like I did something wrong?
Q. On and off since HS my friend and I have always been good friends. We may go a few years and not see each other but when we do we talk and catch up. After 30 years he invited me to visit him. I did and we had the best time. Laughing, talking and ...
A. 8 November 2015: wow...this man was definitely just having fun with you, he was playing you. He did say though, he had no intentions of committing and wanted to stay single. Chances are when you began to protest about the other girl it reinforced his view that you ... (read in full...)
Why does my husband always defend his mom but won't back me up?
Q. Hello aunties, The past year has been stressful, hurtful, and downright annoying for me. The reason I am experiencing these emotions is because my husband has been neglecting to acknowledge my feelings but sticks up for other women who are go...
A. 8 November 2015: Family dynamics like this are never simple and there is more information needed, such as how long have you been married and how did his mother and father react to the idea of his proposal to you? But, given just the information you provided, I would ... (read in full...)
Been seeing this guy for a month. Is he is testing me ?? Am I being controlling?
Q. Dear Cupid I've been talking to this guy for a month. I met him on an advice site. We hit it off right away sharing a lot in common with couple contrasts. We talk at least 4 out of 7 days. I kind like talking to him but too early to call it a c...
A. 8 November 2015: It seems that you are already developing some feelings for this man, even though you haven't met him. He doesn't seem to be on the same page as you. It is really too early to be having expectations of him since you have only been chatting on line. ... (read in full...)
Did I start this blind date off on the wrong foot?
Q. A friend of a friend gave me the email address of a very interesting woman and suggested that I contact her. We haven't met before but she indicated that she'd like me contact her. Being a little nervous and not wanting to overthink it, I ...
A. 8 November 2015: I think your email was fine and invitation was very nice. If she was creeped out at all she would not have responded. Just meet her and talk and be polite like you would with anyone you are first meeting at lunch or dinner. I am sure she is a little ... (read in full...)
Did I start this blind date off on the wrong foot?
Q. A friend of a friend gave me the email address of a very interesting woman and suggested that I contact her. We haven't met before but she indicated that she'd like me contact her. Being a little nervous and not wanting to overthink it, I ...
A. 8 November 2015: I think your email was fine and invitation was very nice. If she was creeped out at all she would not have responded. Just meet her and talk and be polite like you would with anyone you are first meeting at lunch or dinner. I am sure she is a little ... (read in full...)
What changes can I make to improve this relationship? How can I become more relaxed and take it slow?
Q. Hi there, smart people. I'm looking for some help with a few questions that are bothering me to the point of giving me physical symptoms. I've had a very unhealthy relationship roughly 4 years ago that I have spent a long time recovering fro...
A. 8 November 2015: Well, I have to say, it sounds like this girl you are so interested in is rather immature and perhaps enjoying attention from lots of other men. So I am cautioning you about getting so fixated on her being so attuned to your needs. I think she is ... (read in full...)
My potential fiance has insecurities due to past experiences. Do I wait for her to heal? Or do I move on?
Q. My potential fiance is scared of being hurt and her insecurity is a result of her past and currently refuses engagement. Her mother calls me a great guy and the 'right one' for her and her siblings i get along with. I did not get a chance to meet ...
A. 8 November 2015: I think it is really obvious you have deep feelings for her, or you would not be asking such questions on this website. I would ask you to explore more though, around the issues that may be holding her back. Are they really past hurts? Or, is she ... (read in full...)
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