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36-40,
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writes:I have a big doubt about what I am doing, is that right or wrong. I am a 20 years old and my BF is 26 years old and we are in love with each other but a future together like marriage is not sure. We are sexually committed to each other since the past 2-1/2 years but now I am scared if at all I dont get married to my BF (which is a high chance due to his parents objection) should I continue having sex with him or remain with him but nothing to do physical or call it quits in this relationship. He abuses me as well with names when he is angry or I dont meet his demands. He is very short tempered and has lot of ego problems. What should I do in such a relationship. We do love each other a lot and are close. I am confused as to what will happen to my future... Reply to this Question
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reader, Jillybean234  +, writes (7 January 2009):
 Why cant you get married? Do his parents not like you? Maybe you should talk to his parents or impress them in a way so that they will change their feelings on you marrying their son. I wouldn't necessarily stop having sex with him, I would still stay with him and try to wait it out and maybe a proposal will come up. Its not like he wants to spend his entire life unmarried. But, if you feel like the relationship is going nowhere, maybe you should break it off. Unless you know for sure that your love and you think its going to stay that way, just get a break from eachother, let him clear his head and talk to his parents and a conclsion will come. As for the name calling, make it stop. Talk to him about it and tell him it makes you upset and you wont take it anymore. Maybe he was just joking around with you. You know he loves you, im sure he doesnt mean to hurt you. Just make sure he changes and treats you right otherwise, forget him. Every girl deserves to be treated like a princess and nothing less. No one deserves to be abused in any way in any relationship. Best of luck! Go with your heart:) xoxo
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