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Lonely in a new city, any advice on how I can make friends?

Q.   hey everyone im really down right now i moved to cali about three months ago to live with my father and left all my friends behind and yada yada but i have been lonely all summer no friends no nothing people here think your a freak if you ask them ...

A.   5 August 2009: Awww, sorry you are so lonely. I know just how you feel! I am an American living in the UK and trying to make some friends myself! I think the idea about the athletic club is a good one, or try shooting some hoops at the local basketball courts and ... (read in full...)

I love her, I hate her, I'm losing my mind over her..

Q.   hey,this isnt exactly a direct question but i just feel like i need some opinions on my situation...i met a girl about a year ago, and we've been quite serious for a good 4 months, im however leaving the country in september and we both knew this ...

A.   5 August 2009: Are there reasons why she hasn't told her family about you? Are they abusive or overly strict or religious? Maybe she feels they would try to stop her from seeing you when she wants to enjoy the rest of the time you have left together without the ... (read in full...)

I'm 13, I want this 20-year-old to like me, is this OK??

Q.   So im 13 going to be 14 and theres this guy that i like but hes 20 and he always come over or we always text my uncle knows that i like him and he says im not supposed to but i seriously like this dude and we he always listens to my problems and ...

A.   5 August 2009: As others have said, it is normal to have feelings for an older guy, and I think most girls your age have crushes on older guys. But, it is important not to act on them. If you like this guy, you wouldn't want him to get into trouble, and he could ... (read in full...)

How can I approach my ex when we get back to school?...and is there a possibilty of us getting back together?

Q.   My boyfriend broke up with me 2.5 weeks ago and I'm still not sure i understand why. So he told me first that we don't have a future together because "he is a big pussy and doesnt think he could tell his parents about me." Now, we come from very ...

A.   4 August 2009: Well, I think you should give him the space he needs to sort out whatever is going on in his head. He sounds confused. I would avoid contact until school starts, and then when you see him at school, just act like a friend. Ask him how he is, tell ... (read in full...)

Should I carry on talking to my ex's friend? He wants to be more but is afraid of what my ex will think!

Q.   heyy everyone, just got a bit of a dilemna and just dont know what to do. My ex broke up with me 4months ago and has been trying to get me bk but ive refused, i just dnt want anything to do with him, hes really abusive and controlling and ive been ...

A.   4 August 2009: It sounds like you should back off from this guy. How do you know it isn't your ex just screwing with your head, since you haven't met this guy? It would be easy enough for your ex to sign up a new email and MSN and just try to pretend he is "a ... (read in full...)

Should I text him this?

Q.   Basically i was sort of seeing this guy a few of months back, and i liked him soooo much, but after like 5 months he treated me like dirt and really hurt me so i dleted him out my life and he didnt seem to care or anything. (I havent stopped liking ...

A.   4 August 2009: It sounds like you have your best interests at heart. It's good that you are protecting yourself. It's nice of him to apologise but it doesn't change what went before, so I think that text is a very good way to end contact with him without ... (read in full...)

Want my ex back but had drunken sex with another guy..worried ex will find out!

Q.   me and my ex broke up five months ago, after a miscarriage and him saying he didnt love me anymore. we have still carried on seeing each other, like we are in a relationship, although we are not. we argue quite a lot, and recently i have become ...

A.   4 August 2009: First of all, if your ex doesn't want to be with you, then why are you still sleeping with him? It sounds like you are only hurting yourself by allowing him to string you along. Secondly, it also sounds like you have been through a lot and you would ... (read in full...)

Why won't my heart listen to my head?

Q.   I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months over 2 months ago. He was never going to be the one for me and I knew this at the time. I relly liked spending time with him though and we got pretty close. Im having a hard time dealing with being apart from ...

A.   4 August 2009: Unfortunately it usually takes time to go from being in a relationship with someone to just being friends. As difficult as it is, and as much as you don't want to, I think it would be best for you to avoid all contact for several months until you ... (read in full...)

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