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Think I scared her off...How do I fix this?

Q.   Hi im 18 and theres this girl whose 16 on monday and who i realy like, who lives round the corner from me who used to speak with me on msn,one time i got her number on msn and we used to speak on there evrey day and i couldnt talk to her without ...

A.   23 April 2009: NO, your behavior is harrasment you are acting like a stalker!!!... (read in full...)

My girlfriend slept with another guy... Twice.

Q.   My Girlfriend slept with another guy, Twice. the thing is we started dating about seven and then we started arguing over petty things and they grew bigger. she suggested we went on a break then a month later suggested we get back together...

A.   23 April 2009: KING OF THE DOUBLE STANDARD!!!! you slept with your ex! either get over it or spit with her she deserves a straight answer, either forgive and forget or live with anger for a while.... (read in full...)

I don't know what things would be like if we DID start dating again.

Q.   I dated this girl for a while, and I fell in love with her. She also fell in love with me, but she later dumped me because she hated how hurt I always was and she hated the pressure that my depression added to the relationship. It's been about tw...

A.   23 April 2009: if she couldn't deal with your depression the first time what if you get depressed again and she can't handle it? i'd stay friends.... (read in full...)

Why do some girls like the bad boy type?

Q.   I consider myself a "nice guy." I don't smoke, don't do drugs. Drink very rarely. I go to Grad School. Have a decent job, go to church every Sunday. I'm very detail oriented, I give flowers, candy, pay for everything polite, considerate, sweet ...

A.   23 April 2009: believe me many women would be glad to have you not all of us like a bad boy, you just need to find someone with the same values as you!!... (read in full...)

Why does penetration hurt now when it didn't before?

Q.   I have been sexually active for over 2 years now. I've only ever been with 2 guys, both my boyfriends. My current boyfriend and I have been sexually active for 4 months now. Penetration has started to hurt when we start having sex and I am wondering ...

A.   23 April 2009: try lubrication and more foreplay, it sounds like your not fully aroused when he stars penetration!!... (read in full...)

I want him to show more affection!

Q.   Okay... me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months will be 5 in May... I love him a lot but I don't think he really loves me back. He's really nice sweet funny and everything I want.. the problem is he wont tell me he loves me, kiss me, hold ...

A.   23 April 2009: if he's been with you nearly 5 months that has to count for something, but something is definitely amiss, is he religious? if not id check he computer history and email account and make sure he isn't getting his kicks else where, just remember ... (read in full...)

Is watching porn like cheating on your spouse?

Q.   If your spouse believes porn is cheating and you are watching it are you committing adultery?...

A.   23 April 2009: i have recently found out my boyfriend of 2 years has been watching pornography since just after we started going out, and im devastated, i have asked him several times during our relationship if he has watched it and he said no, i looked at the ... (read in full...)

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