Is this a Big Red Flag?
Q. This is a strange question My man (of 1 yr) who is kind, caring, gentle, fun, etc. Has what I think may be a problem... Hard to put in words.But if he thinks someone is Disrespectful he overreacts even if it was unintentional. His reactions ...
A. 9 October 2009: Thank you I think you are right.
It is emotional abuse... (read in full...)
What do you make of this guys mixed signals toward me?
Q. What do you do when a guy doesn't make things clear. He says one thing and then does another. He acts like he wants a full commitment again and then when I agree he hides out again. I did not call him at all and he came running back and then when ...
A. 31 August 2009: Thank you for the response. No it is not really like that about the $1.00. He called tonite and we joked about it if I initate things I could stay there forever it really is about marriage. He was married once and got taken. Me on the other hand ... (read in full...)
Why do his feelings always seem to change for me every other day?
Q. 36 with 41 year old man he says I am the cause of him being unhappy. I have tried everything I can to make him happy. His big thing is that I don't see things his way that I never agree with him. He says I don't bring anything to the table. That I h...
A. 7 August 2009: PS A person has to be happy within himself before he can be happy with someone else. True happiness with a partner comes only when we are at peace with ourselves. Reading your question again it seems that he has his own inner conflicts and is ... (read in full...)
Why do his feelings always seem to change for me every other day?
Q. 36 with 41 year old man he says I am the cause of him being unhappy. I have tried everything I can to make him happy. His big thing is that I don't see things his way that I never agree with him. He says I don't bring anything to the table. That I h...
A. 7 August 2009: Oh my I think we are dating the same man. Basically i would say he is controlling and a bit insecure and maybe feels he is not good enough for you. I don'thave all the details from what you said, but on the other hand if you are sitting around ... (read in full...)
I want my ex back, but I don't know if he wants me. Should I wait and see if he calls?
Q. I can't understand this. In the past with my ex I was always the one to go running back and get him to talk about what happened and it worked. But this time I am waiting on him. We had a great time the other night but it has been a few days and ...
A. 5 August 2009: Well I risked it and told him how i felt. I told him I was hurt to be with someone so romatically, dinner, talking, passionately love making, etc. And then not to hear from him. i told him i loved him and it hurt me too much and I was saying ... (read in full...)
I want my ex back, but I don't know if he wants me. Should I wait and see if he calls?
Q. I can't understand this. In the past with my ex I was always the one to go running back and get him to talk about what happened and it worked. But this time I am waiting on him. We had a great time the other night but it has been a few days and ...
A. 5 August 2009: Well I risked it and told him how i felt. I told him I was hurt to be with someone so romatically, dinner, talking, passionately love making, etc. And then not to hear from him. i told him i loved him and it hurt me too much and I was saying ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing? Or jump the gun?
Q. Did I do the right thing this time? My ex and I have remained friends i.e he is always there when I need him. but in the past month we fooled around. i was ok with it but not this last time. He took me to a fabulous romantic dinner every thing ...
A. 3 August 2009: Well, if he didn't use me then I made a mistake saying what I did. but if he didn't use me then why didn't he call. If he really wanted me I feel that he would have called. Even if he was confused about his feelings he should have called. But ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing? Or jump the gun?
Q. Did I do the right thing this time? My ex and I have remained friends i.e he is always there when I need him. but in the past month we fooled around. i was ok with it but not this last time. He took me to a fabulous romantic dinner every thing ...
A. 3 August 2009: Maybe I shouldn't have said anything but I really felt used. Maybe what i did was to push him further away. I don't know but I would think if he cared even as a friend he would have called. ... (read in full...)
How slow is too slow?
Q. My ex is giving me every indication that he wants to get back together even talking about why we split up...even to the point of saying people don't agree on everything. However he seems to be taking things very slowly. He is very emotional and ...
A. 30 July 2009: Give it a bit of time and keep it light. Seems like he is just fearful of being hurt again. But you must also think of yourself because no matter how much you love him if he does not come around soon you are causing yourself emotional termoil and ... (read in full...)
I don't know if he was using me or just taking things slow
Q. Well I am back again. Had a great b/f everything was fun but when an ex of 5 months saw us together he went crazy and became a stalker. Bottom line b/f didn't beleive me that it had ended. We split up but we got back together but I had too many ...
A. 18 July 2009: Yes everything has been taken care of with the stalker - he does not bother me anymore got police involved this was resolved over 8 months ago. This is what caused the prob. because the police originally told me not to get a restaining order (just ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get on with my life? I can't function!
Q. I know I need to move on and forget my bf because we just don't see eye to eye which I could live with but he can't. Why is it so hard for me to move on? I have at least 5 guys asking me out a week but I don't want to go out with anyone. Even my ...
A. 23 March 2009: 3 weeks. he had a sick friend - 84 visiting for 10 days which I know stressed him - thats what we talked about not about anything in the relationship. He now is travelling for about 10 days - running again. I know it is hard for him as well. He ... (read in full...)
Why did he want to get back together only to push me away again? Should I just forget him?
Q. I can not understand this behavior. Why did he want to get back together only to push me away again. I dont understand this cat and mouse game. We got back together for 2 months I got jealous ke got mad and then said it hurt him and he cant be ...
A. 9 March 2009: I really just need closure on this because it makes absolutely no sense to me. We had a light conversation the otheer day but he wont talk about why we are not together. He just wanted to spend the day by himself. usually we you break up with ... (read in full...)
Why did he want to get back together only to push me away again? Should I just forget him?
Q. I can not understand this behavior. Why did he want to get back together only to push me away again. I dont understand this cat and mouse game. We got back together for 2 months I got jealous ke got mad and then said it hurt him and he cant be ...
A. 9 March 2009: An added note. I really need to get closure on this and I just cant seem to get it because it makes no sense to me. How can everything be so great and then it is over. Does he think I will eventually hurt him. I really need him to tell me ... (read in full...)
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