A friend's uncouth behaviour is making me uncomfortable!
Q. I have a bizarre situation on my hands. I have a 4 year old boy who started nursery school last September. While walking to school on the first day we bumped into another mother and her little boy also walking to school. In an effort to make ...
A. 15 June 2006: Yes, I agree with Lillybet! It's always a very, VERY good idea to clarify things instead of making presumptions, which often turn out to be wrong. For example, if someone were to mistakenly assume that the well-intentioned advice of another was ... (read in full...)
Am I in danger of unfairly spoiling my niece?
Q. There are some wonderful, smart people on this site, and I sure hope you can help me. My hubby and I have no children, but I have two brothers-one has two boys,19 and 13 y.o.; the other has one girl, 12 y.o., and is divorced from her mother. Since ...
A. 7 June 2006: eeeeck! The last part of your very helpful response made me quiver! I NEVER want that scene to play out between my nephews and neices; it would be too horrifying to imagine. All of your replies basically parallel one another (stop with the money), ... (read in full...)
A friend's uncouth behaviour is making me uncomfortable!
Q. I have a bizarre situation on my hands. I have a 4 year old boy who started nursery school last September. While walking to school on the first day we bumped into another mother and her little boy also walking to school. In an effort to make ...
A. 7 June 2006: Okay, Cutie, it sounds like you are too easy-going for your own good, so I’d never advise you to talk to her about her behavior. Obviously her loud swearing at the playground embarrasses you, and in general, she puts you off. I can understand why ... (read in full...)
Am I in danger of unfairly spoiling my niece?
Q. There are some wonderful, smart people on this site, and I sure hope you can help me. My hubby and I have no children, but I have two brothers-one has two boys,19 and 13 y.o.; the other has one girl, 12 y.o., and is divorced from her mother. Since ...
A. 6 June 2006: Dear Irish49 and eyeswideopen: Thank you both so much for your sound advice. I guess I just wanted to make sure I wasn't being a stingy Grinch. Thanks again. :)... (read in full...)
Mother in law from hell...please help!
Q. I have been married for nearly 6 years my mother in law has never accepted me. She always puts me down as a person and a mother even though she neglected her two kids as children as she mostly drunk and used to shut her kids away yet she sits in her ...
A. 19 May 2006: Oh my gosh! Sounds just like my sister-in-law! A mirror image! She's a witch but I spell it with a "B!" You know that saying, "Misery loves company?" Well, it's true. My SIL is by far the most miserable person I know, and she's not happy ... (read in full...)
Feel used,dirty and sexually taken advantage of!
Q. Dear Cupid, This is a gay sexual related question. I've been with my long distance partner for almost two years. We are each others first with this being a "gay relationship" however on my side he was my first, and I lost my virginity to him. Whe...
A. 19 May 2006: Please don't beat yourself up over this because you are not stupid. You're just smarter than you were before, that's all. I'm a married woman in my 40s who just happened to see your question. My heart goes out to you. I agree with the previous ... (read in full...)
Calling all married couples. How do you feel about first loves and exs??
Q. Hi there. I'd really like to hear from the married amongst us. What feelings do you have towards your 'first loves' and exes. I'm getting married and I have a feeling that the argument about whether to invite his 'THE EX' is looming. ...
A. 19 May 2006: You know the old saying: "Out with the old; in with the new!" Seriously though, I'm with you--I wouldn't like it, either. Not at all! Thankfully, I didn't have to deal with this disturbing issue when planning my wedding, and for your sake, I hope it ... (read in full...)
Calling all married couples. How do you feel about first loves and exs??
Q. Hi there. I'd really like to hear from the married amongst us. What feelings do you have towards your 'first loves' and exes. I'm getting married and I have a feeling that the argument about whether to invite his 'THE EX' is looming. ...
A. 18 May 2006: You know the old saying: "Out with the old; in with the new!" Seriously though, I'm with you--I wouldn't like it, either. Not at all! Thankfully, I didn't have to deal with this disturbing issue when planning my wedding, and for your sake, I hope it ... (read in full...)
My husband says I complain and I'm intolerant..I say he puts everyone's else's feelings above mine. I need some advice!
Q. According to my husband of less than five years, I am not very tolerant and a complainer. Here are the complaints I've discussed with my husband, and keep in mind this is over a period of FIVE years: (1) His oldest sister is just downright mean, ...
A. 18 May 2006: Well Hi, Dear Irish 49! I hope I rated your reply. If I didn't, I certainly am now, and I hope you forgive me for my tardy "thank you!" You have NO idea how much I truly appreciate your reponse. I waited a while to post this follow-up because I ... (read in full...)
My husband says I complain and I'm intolerant..I say he puts everyone's else's feelings above mine. I need some advice!
Q. According to my husband of less than five years, I am not very tolerant and a complainer. Here are the complaints I've discussed with my husband, and keep in mind this is over a period of FIVE years: (1) His oldest sister is just downright mean, ...
A. 12 January 2006: eeeeeck! Obviously, not what I wanted to hear, but hey, that's why I posted my question. I need to hear what others think. Thanks a bunch. ... (read in full...)
I can't sleep, eat or think straight since he has abandoned me. How do I get over this guy? Help!
Q. Hey I don't know what to do, I'm becoming depressed and cry myself to sleep every night. I have been doing for the past 7 months now. Three years ago I met a man whom I truly fell for, he never felt the same, and 7 months ago, he finally started ...
A. 12 January 2006: Cutie, you're not alone. Many years ago, I was in your exact situation. Literally, I would not only cry myself to sleep and upon awakeing, but also on my way to work!! I definitely agree with the writer who suggested you make a list about all the ... (read in full...)
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