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He likely doesn't even know I'm alive so...How do I get over this guy I dated 4 years ago?

Q.   hi, i would like your advice. I went out with this guy four years ago when i was 17 and i still keep on thinkn about him and what happened with him. The thing was that we went out for about a year and the relatiionship was really intense like we ...

A.   29 April 2007: Yes the first love is the hardest espeically as you were together for so long. Your not allowing yourself to move on by comparing your ex with other boyfriends. Its also not fair on the man your with to live up to your ex. Maybe have some alone ... (read in full...)

My friend wants to make me choose, it's either the guy I like or my friend, what do I do?

Q.   hi all, i reali like this lad i go to schol wiv (yr 11 IN THE UK) we get on reali well nd love spendin time together but my best friend hates him and she says tht if i go out wiv him she will stop bein my mate and hate me forever i dont no what to ...

A.   29 April 2007: Ask your friend what her problem is. Maybe she fancies him herself and if you go out with him, this is her way of punishing you. If she doesnt fancy him then ask her why she doesnt like him. Unless the answer she gives is valid, I dont see why you ... (read in full...)

I love my guy very much but his family is coming between us.

Q.   Been with my bloke for 5 years. Engaged for 4 1/2 years. Problem is his family. They are always after money from him - they do it behind my back - and he gives into them everytime. They normally only want him or get in touch when they want something ...

A.   29 April 2007: Tell your man your relationship is at risk if he doesn't stop giving them money. Tell him to think about his future with you and you both need the money yourselves for your own lives. If he is having difficulty standing up to his family, help and ... (read in full...)

I like her but she likes me as a friend..so why can't I just be myself around her?

Q.   I like this girl at work but I dont think she likes me,she only likes me as a friend. I get a funny feeling and I cant act myself when Im around her and I just cant seem to talk to her. Im not sure what to do. What should I do? ...

A.   29 April 2007: Take the bull by the horns, you dont know for sure she doesnt like you, so why not ask her out then you'll know for sure. Either way she will be flattered. You will then know where you stand with her. If she says no, then move on, but continue to be ... (read in full...)

I love my new girl but sex is boring. How can I get her do new things?

Q.   y isn't things like my first sexual partner? when i first started havein sex with my first sexual parnter things was great till she had a misscarriage and then she got unhappy but still unhappy she would do things to me my new girlfriend doesn...

A.   29 April 2007: When I was reading through your problem, I thought you were in your late teens, but when I realised you were my age I could not believe it. You have come across so shallow and immature its unreal. No wonder your g/f isn't responsive in bed, your all ... (read in full...)

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