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Hi! I'm 26 years old, happily married and from Oxford UK. I'm a frustrated writer, business woman and all in all pretty laid back.

Mostly prefers to help with sexual, relationship and self esteems issues.

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Self destruct button...

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26 November 2009: We all have depressing and down right crappy days, weeks, months hell even years. Why is it that as women we try to punish ourselves just a little bit more? Ever found yourself feeling so down that you've hit the bottle or closed yourself off fro...

Self destruct button...

Q.   We all have depressing and down right crappy days, weeks, months hell even years. Why is it that as women we try to punish ourselves just a little bit more? Ever found yourself feeling so down that you've hit the bottle or closed yourself off fro...

A.   30 November 2009: I really believe that when we slip into situations like this we fall into the 'things HAVE to get worse before they will get better'. Maybe it's a subconscious way of us trying to fast track a bad time into a better time?... (read in full...)

Why is it more likely for pretty girls to be sluts?

Q.   Dear Agony Aunts, I don't mean to speculate but look at all of the single, hot women that exist in the world today. Can't they just find a man to stay with in a long-term relationship or marriage, even an open relationship? Why does seem more l...

A.   27 November 2009: I think that's a rather broad generalisation. Not all beautiful and pretty girls are sluts. Just like the girls who are less fortunate in looks department, they very well maybe. When you say slut I am assuming you mean in the sense of 'putting... (read in full...)

My Bisexual Secret

Q.   Okay, so, I'm bisexual. Ive known it for a while, and I share everything with my boyfriend, but is it the right thing to tell him this? Hes already worried about other guys trying to make a move, letalone a girl. Should I tell him and risk him ...

A.   26 November 2009: You shouldn't have to hide who you are! If he can't handle that you like guys as well as girls then surely that's issues he has to deal with? If he loves and respects you the way a loving partner should then he will be proud of you for being hone... (read in full...)

Age gap with problems

Q.   I am 15 and am year 11 at school, i met this guy in year 9 (two years younger) about 3 months ago. over these 3 months we have got closer and closer, last month though i slept with another guy and this really made my close friend very angry although ...

A.   26 November 2009: I totally get that with you being 15 and him 13 that seems like a HUUUGE age gap. Especially as girls generally mature faster than boys. In the long run though, 2 years is nothing. If you both really like each other and enjoy spending time in each ... (read in full...)

What can I do to prove to him that I'm for real this time?

Q.   I am 23, me and my boyfriend (26) have been on and off for 5 years, i say on and off as ive dumped him now 4 times....it boils down to me being easy led and people tell me hes to nice hes to quiet bla bla and i was young and felt i was missing out ...

A.   26 November 2009: I don't think you have messed this up. Have you spoken to him about why you have split in the past? You need to reassure him and tell him that you have realised that he really is the one you want to be with. Flatter him a little. Maybe cook a roma... (read in full...)

"Water sports!"

Q.   My boyfriend and I engage in watersports ie urinating on each other. He has asked me if he could pee inside of me and I wanted to know if anything could potentially harm me if we did engage?...

A.   26 November 2009: The best way to do this safely is to make sure that he has drunk a lot of water. This helps to purify the urine thus making it less toxic. Understand that this comes with no guarantees. Make sure you take precautions so not to expose yourself to a... (read in full...)

Do I have to compromise myself to attract a man?

Q.   I am a 20 year old virgin who has never had much luck with guys. I'm not thin (however, I'm not obese: I'm just slightly overweight), I don't have any self confidence in my appearance, and I do not pretend to be something I'm not! Usually, when I ...

A.   26 November 2009:  One thing I learned being a rather curvy, unique woman myself is that guys will either want to be your best friend or be the love of your life. Find your sexuality and run with it! Before you know it guys will be trying their damnedest to try a... (read in full...)

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