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Hey everyone,

I'm an 18 year old English Literature Student from London. I've been in a number of serious relationships with both rats and good guys. My relationship history is as follows:

Have had 'boyfriends' since i was 10 years old, even if it was only playing.

My first proper relationship ended in tears- i was cheated on, broken up with. Kept going back to him like a fool, but eventually moved on. His name was Oliver and this lasted 4 months.

My second relationship lasted 2 years. Keiran and I were a little on-off at times but we were happy. I lost my virginity to him after 6 months and we had a very active, if not always satisfying sex life. I found out he was bisexual early on and didn't mind, but when he started seeing guys behind my back we started to fall apart(One of these guys was my best friend Ella's boyfriend Cal, who later admitted to be gay after 2 years with her). During this 6 month breakdown, we experienced a 3 person relationship with his best friend Dan. Eventually the final straw came when he slept with a girl. This was the kick i needed to move on.

My third and last serious boyfriend was Alex. We had an amazing 3 years together but we fell apart when i found fun in a work colleague. I miss him very very much, as we moved to university together and i was ready to start a life with him. Unfortunately what happened last year made it too hard for him to trust me, and we broke up last month. I've not spoken to him since, but i hope that we can be friends in the future.

I've also had my fair share of fucked up family life, one which ties in rather scarily with my relationship with Kieran. If you ever want to ask me anything about my life feel more than free to- I'm open to talk, if perhaps not so open to publish.

If you ever want to ask me anything i'll always answer with as much honesty as i can. I understand i'm still young, i have alot in life i want yet to experience, but i'll answer with my thought and opinions, with what i've been through as a guide.

Feel free to contact me,

Lucy XxX

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