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*utelilgreeneyedsweetheart09
writes: Hi. I am 14 and have been secretly masturbating any chance I get with a back massager. I want to talk to my mom about it and see if there's something that might feel better in me or on my clit but I am afraid she will get mad at me. I am a Christian and.come from a Christian household but I don't know what my mom's veiws would be on me doing that? What should I do? PS. Doing it secretly gives me much morte sexual pleasure!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): You know if you're unsure it's probably better not to. You can get all the info you need from elsewhere, and you can still keep the communication up with your mom about other things. She might act like its awkward or be shocked, but she probably would really appreciate you letting her in. Why not ask her some other questions you might have, or just start a discussion about something a little less intense than masturbation techniques!
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reader, jamieanderson +, writes (21 February 2009):
It depends on your relationship with her. If you are very close and you feel you can confide in her about that sort of thing then sure. If i were a mother i'd feel very honoured that my daughter would trust me enough to talk to about that. On the other hand if you are unsure about her reaction, that she may be angry or unsupportive you can get lots of information on the internet about it. There are a number of different ways to make yourself feel good, websites that i think are helpful include:
http://www.geocities.com/Wellesley/Atrium/9135/Page1.htm
http://www.female-male-masturbation.com/
http://www.scribd.com/doc/531162/Female-Masturbation-Techniques
Good luck :)
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