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Been married, divorced, done internet dating, been cheated on, lied to and still looking for the sunshine after the rain. My view is no matter how bad it is, life can only get better!

I feel more like we are best friends not lovers

Q.   I am so lost and looking for advice as to whether I should try and move on I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We own a home together (no children) and are both in our late 20s. He has cheated on me in the past (never physical, but ph...

A.   24 August 2010: Your young enough to find some great guy who does tick all the boxes, if you were say late 50's early 60's then I would understand, but in your 20's you want to experience that grand passion. And if it fizzles and bursts, at least you had a ... (read in full...)

Is it common for a man to frequently masturbate while his girlfriend is lying next to him in bed?

Q.   Bottom line question: is it common for a man to frequently (2-4 times a day/night) masturbate while his girlfriend is lying next to him in bed and they are not fooling around and/or he thinks she is asleep? Don't people usually masturbate in ...

A.   1 August 2007: You are not alone! I found it odd waking up to the bed shaking I personally think its bad manners on my boyfriends part, if I was invited to join in maybe I would but to be woken up by him makes me feel uncomfortable.... (read in full...)

I'm single after 3 years; how can I make sure I don't fall for another cheater next time?

Q.   Hi I am planning on going it alone after being in a relationship for over 3 years and I'd like advice please. How do I stop myself falling into the same trap? Last 2 boyfriends cheated as did ex husband. What do I do wrong? This time plan to have ...

A.   1 August 2007: Thank you for all your advice.I think this site is great, I am glad I found it!!!!... (read in full...)

Should I trust my boyfriend?? He said it's not lying if he doesn't tell me what he's up to!

Q.   Should I trust my boyfriend or is he taking the mickey? He recently said that if I dont ask him a specfic question ie are you going out with X then its not lying if he doesnt tell me what he is up to? ...

A.   30 October 2006: Thank you, everyone of you said the same as I felt, it is lying by another name. It is hard to accept that I have been a fool, but perhaps he is the biggest loser of all. I thank you for taking the trouble to reply.... (read in full...)

After celebrating our 5th anniversay together..he just picked up and left the next day! I am so distraught..how do I deal with this?

Q.   Hi, I have been crying for a week now and I have just started to cry again now I am writing this note. I have been with a man for the past 5 years. In the first couple of years, I did not take the relationship too seriously. However, he w...

A.   30 October 2006: Any break-up is hard and this one is especially so, I agree with the others advice, don't contact him, he needs to work things through for himself. Don't even attempt to understand in matters like these men really are from Mars. Get yourself a good ... (read in full...)

I lost my virginity and found out sex with my bf doesn't do it for me. Is this normal?

Q.   I lost my virginity, to my boyfriend a couple of weeks ago, we've had sex twice since then. He enjoys it but it doesn't do anything for me, is this normal? ...

A.   30 October 2006: I have to agree with the advice given, everything takes time, yes it will get better. Even experienced lovers can feel like this if they are sleeping with someone new, it takes time to discover what "does it" for you. Persevere it will improve! ... (read in full...)

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