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I am seeing both of them and I don't know what to do

Q.   help me!I am in love with two brothers. I use to date the older brother for about a year, i was really in love with him, but he wasnt ready to settle for me. so when i found out the younger brother had a thing for me i was quite surprised. i gave up ...

A.   9 January 2006: This is a very difficult and complicated situation. I was in a similar situation myself last year with two men, I could not decide and it all ended in total disaster. I learnt my lesson and i hopw you can resolve this as, believe me, people stand to ... (read in full...)

Can you love someone who is nice but you aren't really attracted to??

Q.   Hi all, just a short questin and I really hope I can get as much feedback as possible. Thanks. My question is, do you think its possible to love someone or make a relationship last when your attraction towards the other person is very low or near ...

A.   9 January 2006: Probably not. If you were to have a relationship with this person then the attraction issue is bound to surface at some point, plus everyone deserves to be with a person who finds them attractive, so it wouldnt be fair on this person. On the other ... (read in full...)

Girls won't take me seriously as "boyfriend material". What am I doing wrong?

Q.   I am a 16 year old guy and I'm having trouble with girls just liking me as a friend. It seems like each time I really like a girl and I tell her, she says she just couldn't go out or do anything with me because I seem more like a friend, or a ...

A.   9 January 2006: You don't really need to change anything about yourself, lots of nice guys have this problem, but as you get older you will find that not all girls are impressed with 'muscles' and 'butch machoism'. You're at a difficult age so by all means ... (read in full...)

Advice on how to get my girl back, after she left for another guy?

Q.   I'm 15. I just had my first gf and she broke up because she met an old friend she liked and they where kissing. I realy loved her. I can't get over her and I want her back. What should I do? ...

A.   9 January 2006: No, some girls are NOt evil but at 15 its very easy to get confused. Take it from a girl who was 15 once and behaved exactly the same. You will meet someone else in time. Just enjoy your youth!! x... (read in full...)

Six months ago, I could see being with her forever, but now everything feels forced...

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been together for nearly 6 months now. At first everything was so amazing, and spontaneous. We have been through a few rough times together but lately she seems almost depressed. Me and her are both seventeen, and she is g...

A.   9 January 2006: Maybe these problems at home are upseting her more than you realise, or more than she is willin to admit to. Don't force her to talk to you, but make her understand that whatever is going on in her head, she can always open up to you and you will be ... (read in full...)

My Scottish Asian fella won't tell his family about me!

Q.   I wonder if anyone can advise me? I am in a relationship with an Asian man (25), although he grew up in scotland. we have been together for a year. He says he cannot tell his femily about me as I am not Asian or have the right social background. His ...

A.   9 January 2006: Thanks for the advice guys, I appreciate it. Will try to be more relaxed and understanding of his motives, I know he loves me to bits x... (read in full...)

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