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How do I persuade my boyfriend to perform oral sex on me?

Q.   How do i convince or persuade my boyfriend to perform oral sex on me,i have talked about it a couple of times but he said that he is not comfortable with it.What else do i do cause i really enjoy oral,moreover he doesnt last long during sex and i ...

A.   24 February 2011: If he is not comfortable with it then that is it, if it where the other way aorund and ou wernt comfortable giving head then you wouldnt like if he tried to ''persuade'' you otherwise. You must respect his boundaries. ... (read in full...)

Need some tips on how to talk to girls, please??

Q.   How do I go about talking to girls? I'm not a very social person. Quite introverted, so how would I go about perhaps even making friends with a girl. Maybe even asking one on a date or anything? I'm quite an awkward kid, and there's a few gi...

A.   20 November 2010: I think aunt honesty is so right..its all about confidnece and liking yourself before you can expect anyone else to like you. And besides maybe there is a girl who is interested in you and is waiting for you to make a move because alot of girls wait ... (read in full...)

Hate myself for being a virgin at 19

Q.   [OP original title] Well as the title says im a virgin at 19, never had a girlfriend and never even been kissed and i cant stand it. everywhere i go i see couples and all of my friends have had girlfriends and boyfriends a hundred times over, its ...

A.   8 August 2010: First of all stop focusing on the fact that you are a virgin at 19. The only person who would make a big deal about this is you. No other decent girl will care most will actually think its sweet. And it is never going to happen for you if you dont ... (read in full...)

Friend beoming anorexic?

Q.   I have a problem with my best friend. I think she is developing a serious weight problem and i dont no what to do to help her. She never eats and is constanly making remarks about her weight. I already had a friend who became anorexic and went to ...

A.   8 August 2010: Thank you both for your answers! Just a little update we actaully had a heart to heart and she has started seeing a therapist and things are going well...:) ... (read in full...)

What if he wants me just for sex?

Q.   How do I know if he just wants me for sex? Its a guy I met about 2 weeks ago. I really like him. But it has crossed my mind b4 that he may just want me for that purpose. ...

A.   8 August 2010: It has only been two weeks aswell so he might not want to talk every single day but at least he texts you back instead of just texting you when he wants you. Try not to come on to strong as that tends to scare them away. Try to keep it cool and just ... (read in full...)

What if he wants me just for sex?

Q.   How do I know if he just wants me for sex? Its a guy I met about 2 weeks ago. I really like him. But it has crossed my mind b4 that he may just want me for that purpose. ...

A.   7 August 2010: you wont know for sure if he just wants you for sex you will just have to take a chance and see how it goes, and if you feel like he is pressing for sex or if hes not really emotionally ivolved then get out but beforethen dont be so negative and ... (read in full...)

Best friend and I like the same guy..how can we make our friendship survive?

Q.   Hello! My problem is that my bestfriend and I like the same guy... What are some tips for getting through this without our friendship being destroyed?...

A.   28 June 2010: Both of use should just agree to stay away from him. Otherwise one of you will get hurt. There are plenty more fidh in the sea! :)... (read in full...)

I can a woman physically cum over a male???

Q.   I was giving my boyfriend a handjob the other day and he was talking saying dirty type things and he goes: 'mmm i want you to cum on me.' what does that mean ? do women 'come'/'cum' like men do ? i've masturbated for ages and when i orgasm or be...

A.   1 June 2010: you can have a female ejaculation if aroused enough. :) ... (read in full...)

Nearly 15 and never had a period

Q.   Hi im nearly 15 and I haven't had my period what should I do?...

A.   11 April 2010: First of all take a deep breath and relax! It is very normal for people to get their period at different times! some as late as 17! it depends on many differnt things including weight and hormones! They will kick in soon enough so try not to worry... (read in full...)

My other children hate their autistic brother! I fear this will effect his social development!

Q.   My son (12) says that he hates his autistic brother (11), he says when he is calm so its not like he's saying it in the middle of the an argument. He says that he controls his life due to the need to keep a strict routine and calls him a retard ...

A.   11 April 2010: Maybe you should try family therapy. There they could discuss some of the reasons they feel this way. And if you spend most of your time with him they might feel jelous and resent him because he gets most of your attention. As for his socail ... (read in full...)

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