I want long term, but I don't know if she wants it as well
Q. Hi, Just a question if anyone ever succeeded with respect to different views about living together. I was married for 16 years and then divorced after my wife cheated. I met a new woman after that and we have been together 3 years now. She i...
A. 12 December 2014: Thanks to everyone for their kind comments, I appreciate it. I have decided it is best to break off the relationship. The struggles do not end and will never end because principally I cannot have in this relationship that which I desire most, a life ... (read in full...)
His mothers engagement ring never feels like my own?
Q. I got engaged last August, his mother died a year beforehand he said he will give me her ring but i never felt 100% happy with it as i never got to see it till i got engaged. The ring keeps slipping off and when he tries it on my finger he says its...
A. 12 December 2014: It's his mother's ring - at least in his eyes. Having you wear it as an engagement ring is not appropriate, for him it is an emotional attachment to his mother, and for you it is not your own ring and you don't feel comfortable with it (not even ... (read in full...)
The drama is getting too much ...........
Q. I am dating an almost divorced man. His final court date for his divorce is in February and that's it. For the past month his soon to be ex is in overdrive trying to patch things up even though she filed. I beleive when she filed it was to scare ...
A. 11 December 2014: I am also a divorced father, with a teenage daughter who lives with me and I have full custody. I have a girlfriend, who came into the picture after the divorce and had nothing to do with it. She knows my ex is nothing more to me than the mother of ... (read in full...)
Is married man hinting for me to sleep with him?
Q. Hello, What does it mean when a married man hints to you that he is staying in a bad situation? Is he lying or telling you the truth? Does he want to sleep with you? Interested in a relationship? Wants to give you a green light to pursue him?...
A. 12 May 2011: It sounds like he is interested in confiding with you because he is lacking emotional intimacy in his marriage. I have experienced both sides of this, having had an emotional affair myself once and now suffering through a full blown affair my wife ... (read in full...)
I still have sex with my wife even though she is having an affair. Is this letting go?
Q. Is this what letting go means? My 42 year old wife is about a month into an affair with a man 25 years older than her. I have seen their email correspondence and the level of emotional attachment is unbelievable. This whole thing hit me out of th...
A. 12 May 2011: Thank you Dorothy Dix, your comments really struck a chord with me. I think what you say is very true. I only hope I can restore some sort of communication with my wife. We have gotten so bad we can hardly even email to each other any more. I would ... (read in full...)
I love my husband but not this forced celibacy!
Q. Im an totally sexually deprived. My husband does not have any sex drive. We tried to fix this problem , but never got better. But now, I realized, if I dont want to leave ,its better just leave him alone.He is nice guy,I don't know what happened to ...
A. 7 May 2010: I don't want to get into a public discussion in this thread about my situation, which is off topic to yours. But I am more than happy to continue the discussion privately if you choose to write me a private message.... (read in full...)
Marriage in trouble. I can't stand my wifes weight or how she dresses
Q. *OP's own title* I am a male, 44 years old. My wife is 41. We’ve been married for 15 years and have one 10 year-old daughter. For the last several years I’ve been unhappy with my wife’s appearance. In my opinion she needs to lose about 15-20kg o...
A. 1 May 2010: "I am that beautiful lady trapped in a changing body going through what she is...it won't be the end of the world if you leave..."
At least I'm willing to admit there is a problem and try to seek some way to address it. I chose to speak openly a... (read in full...)
I love my husband but not this forced celibacy!
Q. Im an totally sexually deprived. My husband does not have any sex drive. We tried to fix this problem , but never got better. But now, I realized, if I dont want to leave ,its better just leave him alone.He is nice guy,I don't know what happened to ...
A. 29 April 2010: I think your issue with masturbation is separate from the celibacy issue.
What do you mean by "We tried to fix this problem , but never got better"??
It's one thing if it's a physiological problem. It's another if its psychological. I... (read in full...)
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