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Trust and retroactive jealousy issues

Q.   Okay, well this is hard for me to write, but I really could do with some help or advice, please. I have been in a relationship with a lovely woman for 3 months now, and we are both getting along great and really enjoy each others company. We are ...

A.   3 July 2017: I hope that all has worked out well. I was on the receiving end of retroactive jealousy, and it was very ugly and painful. It killed our relationship and I'm still coping with the damage, 5 years after the relationship ended. I hope that your ... (read in full...)

4.5 months after the break up and still struggling to move on?

Q.   It's been 4.5 months since my boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me. He's my first bf. My life's back to normal, I've been meeting new people, got a new hobby and loving it, going out with friends and having fun. I know I don't love him anymore...

A.   8 June 2015: It's hard because you cared about him, and this is your first experience. Luckily, it can be a learning experience. It takes time though, as much time as you need. It is natural to look back and criticize your own actions, only do this to learn and ... (read in full...)

Do women really regret their sexual past?

Q.   This question goes out to the ladies and girls out there. Do you regret your sexual past especially when you've only dated losers then finally one day meet the man of your dreams and you wished he was your first or that you had met him in the past?...

A.   22 February 2015: My experiences have made me who I am, and have allowed me to form relationships with good people. The only time I have felt regret, was when it was imposed on me by a man with views like yours. I regretted being honest about my past with someone who ... (read in full...)

Dumped by my bofriend because I slightly lied about my sexual history

Q.   I need men's advices. My boyfriend with whom I have been with for 6 great months dumped me 3 days ago because I decided to be honest and admit I had lied to him regarding my past sexual history (I told him I had slept with 10 guys instead of 13). ...

A.   17 June 2010: A little off the original topic but in response to fellini: Why is it assumed that sexual women have no self-respect?? Isn't it a natural thing to want to have sex? Why are sexual men considered to be macho studs?? Seems like a double-standard. ... (read in full...)

He thinks a threesome will save our relationship, but will he lose respect for me instead?

Q.   My boyfriend of about a year wants a threesome. (If you have read my other post, you might laugh and think it is a crazy idea.) Last week he said he would like to have a threesome. Since we do not know anyone to do it with it is mostly all fa...

A.   7 July 2009: Thank you all for your responses. Keep in mind, I am NOT MARRIED, and I am not asking for a moral criticism! This is not an area meant for moral debate. Thanks you to those who answered my question! ... (read in full...)

Can't stop thinking about girlfriends past

Q.   I cannot stop thinking about my girlfriend's sexual past. I have asked about it and regret doing so because I can't stop thinking about it and have found out she has had sex with more people than I have but she hasn't said how many and won't. She ...

A.   3 July 2009: I am experiencing this myself, on the receiving end of the jealousy, it is unjustified and it sucks. I never realized how many people deal with this, mostly men. The circumstances always vary. Man can be torn up over a kiss on the cheek. Just ... (read in full...)

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