Is it normal to think about the "what ifs" so close to the wedding?
Q. Hi, Please help me. I have cheated on my fiance with a friend. I don't have any excuses as to why I did it, I'm just a fool I guess. The 'other man' has really messed me up, on one hand telling me he loves me and that it should be him I marry a...
A. 4 April 2005: Do you think that some guy who allowed you to cheat with him on your fiance, and a guy who is playing games with your head while you are in the process of getting married is really worth it? Marriage is something that two mature adults do, and this ... (read in full...)
Sex is boring and "a chore"... but only to her!
Q. Well, my sex life is - in a word - boring. Now she has told me she has only had 2 orgasms in nearly the 3 years we have been together and has been faking it for the rest of the time. I really need help because I'm very active whereas she isn'...
A. 4 April 2005: It is hard for guys to understand women, just as it is for women to understand men. Don't take it personally about the faking situation, if all the men in the world only knew how easily and often these things are faked. It can still be enjoyable ... (read in full...)
Although he says he loves me, he only has time for me as a last resort. Is he playing with me?
Q. I am divorced and I have been dating this guy for the last four months. I have a son that is 20 months old. I thought everything was going great and he broke up with me, but still wanted to "see" me, and we are having the same relationship that we ...
A. 28 March 2005: DONT sit around waiting for him. Do your thing and don't be avaliable for him at the drop of a hat. If he really loves you and wants you, he will make the time, he will go out of his way. Please don't let yourself become this guys safety blanket ... (read in full...)
Sex is always on my time and my terms... and not very often. Have I fallen out of love with him?
Q. Hi, I was just wondering if you could give me some advice. I have been with my partner for nearly 10 years and we don't have sex very often. The thought of him coming near me turns me off. If I do have sex it's on my time and my terms. Do you thin...
A. 28 March 2005: Questions like this can only be answered by your own self. None of us know you or him. We don't know the depth of it all...and most of all we don't know your heart. All we can do is give you ideas, but that only gets you to thinking and suading ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of trying to manage a long-distance relationship for a year, until my partner gets back home...
Q. Subject: Long Distance Relationship Hi, James, my long term boyfriend, was offered a one year contract job on the other side of the world before we got together, and it would start this October. He accepted but is now unsure about taking it up...
A. 28 March 2005: Hard one. But lets think realistic. What if he stayed and got a different job. You would always know he could have had the better one far away. And what if he is unhappy with the job he finds as the alternative? His unhappiness would be to have made ... (read in full...)
It was my first time trying to have sex, but we couldn't get anything inside!
Q. I tried to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time but it wouldn't go in. My vagina seems to stop about 3 centimetres in and then nothing else can go up. Even when he tried fingering me he couldn't get his fingers in there. What is wrong?...
A. 27 March 2005: You need to go to a gyno and have yourself checked out. We are all unique people. Maybe you have a very small canal from your opening to your cervix. Very possible. But this question is one for your gyno!!... (read in full...)
Since my b/f doesn't express his feelings, we're always breaking up then getting back together!
Q. Hi, Me and my boyfriend seem to be stuck in a bit of a destructive pattern. We both love each other very much and get on great most of the time, but the problem is that he doesn't tend to tell me how he's feeling and lets it build up. We've b...
A. 27 March 2005: It sounds to me like there needs to be a change in this relationship, and that change is maturity. I am not doubting that you yourself, or even he, is a responsible adult, but the great thing about love is how it makes us act so childish at times... (read in full...)
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