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Any ideas on how to afford the wedding of my dreams?

Q.   I'm a young women (22) who has in fact found the love of my life. I'm sitting here watching some wedding show. I have a single mother who lives off a fixed income. My love's parents aren't well off but have every thing they need. I have no idea how ...

A.   4 July 2009: Go to the countryside or the forest. Have a wedding there. It will be free, and you won't need a florist. ... (read in full...)

He is emotionally as cold as ice. This seems to be a pattern for me...

Q.   i need to write this stuff down otherwise ill go mad. 6 years ago i worked with my ex fiance and a guy i was very good friends with. my ex fiance and i met when i started the job. we got engaged and got a house together soon after that it went wron...

A.   4 July 2009: Shh shh. I understand how you feel, people often come along it seems just to break your heart. He was telling you without words that he didn't see a future with you. But that's okay. It doesn't mean that he won't ever change his mind in time but ... (read in full...)

I'm so confident in everything except the bedroom!

Q.   Hi, I’m really shy when it comes to sex, I usually have to know someone for quite a while before I’m comfortable sleeping with them. Only…I haven’t been with anyone in almost 5years now! – I haven’t so much as kissed a girl! I’m a fairly attractiv...

A.   4 July 2009: I don't think there is anything wromg with you. I think it's the worse thing to have sex with someone who you don't truly know is the one you love. I know it's kinda a weird idea. But people who just 'go with the flow' they aren't the ones who ... (read in full...)

I'm willing to wait, I love her so much it hurts...

Q.   So I met this girl about three weeks ago. I have been with her solid for those three weeks like being at her apartment and sleeping in her bed. we have had sex 3 times and she gave me keys to her apartment. I told her i loved her and she said she ...

A.   2 July 2009: I fell in love with a guy instantly. The sad thing is people rarely both love wach other. But i heard love is not just nothing that something always comes from love. Also analyze your feelings figure out why you have feelings for her and also ... (read in full...)

How do I go about this crush on my best friend's Bf?

Q.   Hi, I have been dying to tell someone about this.... I have a huge crush on one of my best friend's boyfriends. He is funny, caring and good looking. He is also a very touchy feely person and when she is not around gives me hugs and snuggle...

A.   2 July 2009: I really do think this is a bad idea like the first girl but I would like to add I know how feelings go and sometimes they just seem to go wherever, even places best not ventured. I know this sounds hard but I would tell your friend the truth. Tell ... (read in full...)

Horrible age diffrence! Help me get rid of my crush!

Q.   I have now liked this guy for 3 months. But there is just one little problem with it. He happens to be 23 when im only 14. I truly hate liking him cause i cant have him. And i wouldnt do that to anyone i liked cause its illigal and i dnt want h...

A.   2 July 2009: This is hard to say but I would say stay away from him completely till you're a little older and then see if you still like him. First wait two years. In order to get over him this is what I'd do. Write him letters whenever you feel like telling ... (read in full...)

He has stopped talking to me and I don't know why... What should I do? I still like him.

Q.   This is a really long question... Especially from a kentucky girl like me.. But please answer becuase I am soo heart broken over this :-( Ok, so here it goes - I met this one girl named Dawn and she introduced me to her guy friend, Beckson....

A.   2 July 2009: I understand you had sexual desire and that is really hard to deal with but having sex before you know where a relationship is going is a really bad idea! This is why. If you get the chance to I'd tell him you were sorry that things moved too fast ... (read in full...)

On and off...?

Q.   A girl I really liked went out with me and all her closest and my closest friends were like messengers. Everyone told me that she really liked me and I really liked her. I asked her if she did and she was like you first. So I said I think I can grow ...

A.   2 July 2009: First I wonder, how do you feel about her? If you really want her and know she's the one than I think you should stick around and show her you still care. Be a gentleman for her. I'm pretty sure she'll turn around. I think she's testing you. ... (read in full...)

He admits he doesn't love me and it's been a year? Do I stay or go?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year. Whilst he behaves in a loving manner and is respectful and caring, he never tells me he loves me, in fact he tells me he doesn't. Should I accept this at face value and leave, or could it be self ...

A.   2 July 2009: I think it's very rare that two people both are head over heels in love with each other. Usually one person is on love and the other is not. It is sad but true. But if you know in your heart that he is the One or you feel that I'm in love ... (read in full...)

He admits he doesn't love me and it's been a year? Do I stay or go?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year. Whilst he behaves in a loving manner and is respectful and caring, he never tells me he loves me, in fact he tells me he doesn't. Should I accept this at face value and leave, or could it be self ...

A.   2 July 2009: I think if you care about him and you are in a relationship that you should continue to care about him, and also not expect him to have feelings for you but just tell him there's no pressure I love you and it's okay that you don't love me back cause ... (read in full...)

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