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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:A girl I really liked went out with me and all her closest and my closest friends were like messengers. Everyone told me that she really liked me and I really liked her. I asked her if she did and she was like you first. So I said I think I can grow old with you and she said she agreed and she started getting ready and blushing. After a while we just started to drift cause it was really hard to talk to her with her friends interrupting every three seconds. She broke up with me saying you need to start paying attention. Recently I tried to get close to her and win her heart back but it seems to be on and off. One day she's really flirty and one day she treats me lesser then a friend. Any pointers ?
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reader, Hersong +, writes (2 July 2009):
First I wonder, how do you feel about her? If you really want her and know she's the one than I think you should stick around and show her you still care. Be a gentleman for her. I'm pretty sure she'll turn around. I think she's testing you. She's a little insecure but that's okay cause with your love for her you'll help her and she'll be happy with you. Give her lots of living things to make a relationship grow. Grow a garden and give her vegetables and flowers and spend time with her outside in beautiful places and be very gentle so she knows you'd never hurt her. With love Sandra
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (2 July 2009):
You need to move on she doesnt appear to feel the same that you do and she is letting her friends ruin things for her this is a common problem with teenagers maybe she is shy or doesnt know how she really feel but you are to young to start talking about forever give it some time and if she really is into she will straighten up and come back with a apology first off i wouldnt worry about it if i were you, you sound like a great guy and you will find a great girl eventually dont be in such a rush
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