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I don't know how to stop this cycle and be rid of the pain for good.

Q.   I don't really know why i'm asking for help or advice on this as i know a big part of it is my fault. To cut a long story short i've liked this guy for a while, and he was the first person i'd ever slept with. He doesn't know that part and i would...

A.   3 November 2010: get him out of your life, i have been there believe me, i let him make my life hell for two years, delete him on facebook if you have his number delete it or change your number, if he trys anything just simply say look i know we had sex before but ... (read in full...)

What do you consider red flags in a relationship?

Q.   Just a few quick questions I have. I just want to keep this simple and straight t the point... 1) what are forms of abuse in a relationship, can anyone give me examples of mental/emotional abuse in relationships? 2) what are in your opionion p...

A.   3 November 2010: anything that your partner says that makes you feel even slightly worthless, you don't need anybody in your life who makes you feel less than you are, a partner is supposed to build you up not bring you down, red flags, if they ignore you, pick ... (read in full...)

Her distrust is putting a real strain on our relationship

Q.   I've been with my girl for over a year we've been through a lot I have only lied a few times about small things that where in the past and I even cut off contact with a good friend(female) just to save our relationship and after I did my girl still ...

A.   3 November 2010: this is such a problem with so many couples, shes obviously been hurt before really badly for her to react like this, you need to ask her why shes like this, its gonna take time but you have to show her you truely love her, ive been that girl ... (read in full...)

Not happy with husband, do I stay for kids or go with man I love?

Q.   Hi every1 i am new to this site but have a problem maybe like many of u i am stuck for an answer. Just like i am stuck between 2 men. 1 is my husband who i've known for almost 10 years and benn married to hoim for 7 of those we've got 2 wonderful ...

A.   3 November 2010: sometimes in life we have to make difficult decisions, its honorable that your staying with your husband, but you've put your happiness aside for the hapiness of others, your always going to ask yourself what if, if you don't take the jump, if this ... (read in full...)

I never get clear answers from her

Q.   Ok i have been off and on friends with this girl i like and i have told her i like her, and i never got a clear answer after that, she is in my class at school and i am always kinda a class clown and the butt of peoples jokes occasionly (In good ...

A.   3 November 2010: your going to have to let this one go, in a few years time you may not even remember her name, and why the aggressive attitude?girls don't respond well to that, maybe work on that? over the next few years there are going to be alot of girls, just ... (read in full...)

4 years later (the ex nightmare)

Q.   hello! well I'm gonna start from the beginning, I'm currently 18 years old (19 in DEC) and I'm married, so i started dating my husband when i was 14 yrs, so he had an ex girlfriend she loved him a lot and she went crazy when she found out i was ...

A.   3 November 2010: sometimes we come across people in life who really want to bring us down, this girl is obviously hurting she feels your husband was the one for her, its so hard but you cant hate her, wheres anger going to get you, she's just trying to get at you, ... (read in full...)

Help me! I feel like a pathetic loser!

Q.   i am a 15 year old girl who lives in Holland. I moved to a bilangual school recently which half of the lessons are in dutch. I feel like a pathetic LOSER because i am not white or dutch, I have such an accent when speaking dutch, all the other kids ...

A.   3 November 2010: your at the age where you are most vulnerable, feeling rejected is such a horrible thing to have to go through. in 5years time all of this is going to be a thing of the past trust me, its so hard not to let people get you down. you need to work on ... (read in full...)

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