My long distance boyfriend is mean to me online but affectionate to me in person! Why is this?
Q. Fun with long distance! Why is my boyfriend all snuggly and affectionate whenever I visit him, but a bit of a meany online? I fell in love with my boyfriend online, though he wasn't very attractive in photos, because I liked his intellect. ...
A. 2 July 2007: Being a little bit mean to the one you love makes it that bit more exciting. If you don't both have a childish quibble every now and again then you can both take things too seriously. I'm always mean to my gf online, and she the same to me, ... (read in full...)
He let me "do" him... and I think it made him feel guilty - how can I convince him it's a guilty pleasure?
Q. My boyfriend and I were fooling around, when we tried anal stimulation for the first time. He did it to me, and it didn't really do much other than make me come quicker. But when I did it to him, it was like turning on a sex-switch. I'll...
A. 2 July 2007: Daniellepew is right.
If I were you, I'd tell him not to feel guilty, as I have known many people to have tried this and really enjoy it!
At the end of the day it should be about what makes you both happy...and if he says he doesn't like it,... (read in full...)
Help me give my wife a night to remember!
Q. I really wanna give my wife the night of her life and seduce her. We have been married for about 8 years and are still madly in love and have a great sex life. I want to make it a night to remember for her and I want to have the best sex I've ever ...
A. 2 July 2007: Carebearer just gave you the most amazing advice!
The only thing I'd be wary about is new boxers...cos they always leave little balls of fluff and stuff which looks kinda dirty...
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I have never cheated on my boyfriend of 4 years but he's got it into his head I have and it's driving me mad!
Q. I have been going out with my partner for over 4 yrs now. But i am at the point now of deciding whether or not to end it. There is a considerable age gap between us and perhaps this plays its part in the problems. My partner does not trust me nor...
A. 25 June 2007: An entirely new approach that I would suggest, is maybe show him this page, and what what the accusations have brought you to?... (read in full...)
I think she's gone off me. How can I make us become more close?
Q. i have got a girlfriend and we havnt been going out long . only a few weeks . But i want to see her alot more and we dont seem very close. She was a lot more flirty just a couple of weeks ago but now i seem to think she has gone off me. How can i ...
A. 25 June 2007: I think YummyMummy is right.
It's sometimes a lot harder than it sounds, but you should talk to her about it.
Tell her how you feel, and listen to what she has to say.
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Touching Skin
Q. TOUCHING SKIN This is playfull and gives u a special bond with your partner. Take your partner lay her on the bed with only underwear, know the secret is not to touch your partners skin with your hands. (ex. use feathers),then start by ...
A. 25 June 2007: I'd say a good idea is to kiss her on the lips for a while, then move down to her neck, then back to her lips...then go further and further down each time...
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I'm hurt by my girlfriend's behaviour
Q. I am really worried. My girlfreind told me on the phone that she flashed in front of sum mates and was talking to her freind about things we had done and her freind had done. She even admitted to seeing a mates penis non erect and erect. I felt ...
A. 25 June 2007: I had kind of the same thing a few days ago.
My gf got off with some girl while i was there.
She was completely drunk at the time, and didnt even remember it till somebody else brought it up.
I got quite jealous, feeling kind of inadequa... (read in full...)
Can the DearCupid men elaborate on their views on porn?
Q. Hi, I just read some answers to a question that was posted about porn and some answers from you guys were that men look at porn stars who are completely different for what they go for in real life and it's not a threat at all to their partner. ...
A. 25 June 2007: In my opinion, porn is just a means of quick relief.
Like someone else said, porn stars aren't people, just images.
I think I can safely say most men would prefer a real women to some blonde bimbo in an online video, so REAL women have nothing... (read in full...)
I have a mole on my face that makes me shy
Q. I need help bulding courage and faith in telling this girl how i feel? This may seems pretty stupid but I have a (black)mole on my face and it isn't really noticeable (2mm radius) that is the only thing I hate about myself. it seems that because of ...
A. 25 June 2007: I'm your age, and a few months ago, I wasn't particularly happy with my appearance.
I felt exactly the same way, like I was gonna be alone forever.
If this girl is right for you, then I wouldn't worry about it.
I don't know what situatio... (read in full...)
Which should I choose? Logistics or electrics?
Q. I am 17 years old and have a passion for logistics (lorrys) ever since i was born. My dad's business was set up the day is was born then the company finished in 1998. I always thought i would run it one day. He said that if i got in transport he ...
A. 25 June 2007: Bacially, I suggest you do what you'll ENJOY doing in the long run.
If your step dad wants you to become an electrician, just explain to him that logistics is what you really love, and he should understand.
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