My married man's wife is pregnant! What should I do?
Q. I am 24 years old and have been having an affair with a 33 yr old married man from my small community for over a year now. I just found out that his wife is pregnant. I have tried to end our relationship but I always find myself drawn to him. A f...
A. 16 April 2009: It is his responsiblity to tell his wife not yours. You have done enough damage here so move on with your life and find a relationship which is not immoral.
There is an innocent life who was made out of love that is about to enter this world and ... (read in full...)
How to pick the best therapist?
Q. My husband and I are in need of couseling. I was wondering what information you need from a counseling establishment before you pick a therapist. It seems like picking the one that is just closest is not the way to go. Any thoughts....
A. 14 April 2009: Here are some things I suggest you check before choosing a counsellor: 1. Qualifications 2. Male or female counsellor - which would you be more comfortable with? 3. What areas are they specialized in and do they offer any courses (eg: healthy thi... (read in full...)
Does getting raped affect your muscles "down there"...
Q. I asked this same sort of question and didn't get the response I was looking for. Well long story short when I was about 15 I was raped and after that I noticed that I was pretty loose "down there" Does getting raped affect your muscles "down there" ...
A. 14 April 2009: A womans vagina is designed to deliver a baby, after a baby has been born the vagina usually contracts and goes back to normal. Those who have difficulty are examined and given pelvic exercises to tighten the muscles. I haven't heard of being ra... (read in full...)
My partner is verbally abussive and unsupportive but I love him
Q. Hi, My BF and I have been together for just over 5 years. In that time we have had a lot of ups and downs, partly due to him still sorting out the legal side of his divorce with his ex wife and worrying about what he would lose in the divorce. ...
A. 7 April 2009: Your friends and daughters are only looking out for your best interest here. You have been with this person for 5 years and are making up excuses for his behaviour. No matter what a person is going through it does not justify treating someone who ... (read in full...)
How to tell my husband
Q. About 6 months ago me and my husband were having problems with money and we have a daughter 9 months old. He works long hours working, I was feeling lonley one night as my daughter woulnd't stop crying so I contacted my ex just for company he made ...
A. 7 April 2009: If you truly love your husband and want your family to work then you need to be honest with him. Your guilt will consume you and lead you to make further poor choices.
You cannot change your choice, you can only change your behaviours and impr... (read in full...)
My friend is married but he's hinted he wants more than friendship from me. Help!
Q. I am really confused and upset, partly because someone I thought was a male friend has hinted he wants more (and he is married). I do have a conscience, but I do get on very well with him though he is lot older than me. He gave me his mobile n...
A. 7 April 2009: I will start by saying if this was to go further it would destroy your friendship and other lives. He is a married man and has made vows to his wife to be faithful to her in good times and the bad. For him to be searching for something else ... (read in full...)
Both married but falling hard for eachother... what do I do?
Q. Hi, I am looking for someone to offer me some advice. I am a 47 year old man and have been married for 29 years with two sons 21 and 23 years old. I love my wife and kids to bits. I was promoted to a senior position in my organisation 2 years ago...
A. 5 April 2009: My advice is stop while you can! You say you love your wife and kids to bits, how could you love them and do this to them?
I recently discovered my husbands affair with one of our mutual friends and let me tell you it is the worst thing you can ... (read in full...)
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