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The problem that's surfacing right now is a recurring one - blowjobs!!

Q.   Recently, my boyfriend and I have been hitting some... impasses. This is a source of some grief for me, because otherwise, our eight-month relationship has suffered no rough spots whatsoever. We don't get into screaming matches or even real fights - ...

A.   27 September 2009: No you're not in the wrong at all. It can't be appealing as it is but if it's not clean that's just worse. Stick to making him shower before. Also if he eats healthily the horrible taste that gets left in your mouth might not be so horriibl... (read in full...)

What did she really mean with this note?

Q.   So, theres this girl in my 9th grade english and P.E. class, we get along well, and i walk her to her bus and classes, i flirt alot with her she flirts alot with me, and today we did our first note pass during english, she passed a note that said ...

A.   26 September 2009: Ask her out I think she likes you. And I think you like her.... (read in full...)

Staying at his place for the first time....

Q.   Ok so my boyfriend has asked me to stay over at his, because he works late and likes to have a drink, but doesnt want to have to drive me home. Im very excited, but also a little worried. I dont know if hes expecting sex (but he wont be getting it!) ...

A.   16 September 2009: Lol, awh. The first stage of the relationship is definitely the best isn't it? How long have you been together? Is he a good guy? If you so really have nothing to worry about, he'll understand that you're not ready to have sex with him and I thin... (read in full...)

Is he really into me?

Q.   dear rock and roll,if you read this message please, please answer this as i guess you were named before as rif raf?i really appreciate your answers.so please please and please reply to my question.and let me know if you are really rifraf.but i ...

A.   9 September 2009: He sounds weird to me.... (read in full...)

Help! I've fell in love with my best friend

Q.   I am in college and living with 4 other girls..two of which are my best friends...however, one of them I am very very close with and she knows everything about me and I know everything about her. She is by far my very best friend. Only one ...

A.   9 September 2009: Simple. Tell her. That is the only way to put your mind at rest. You never know, she might actually feel the same. If she has just started dating some guy it wont be love. If you tell her it can go two ways: She'll either feel the same and you'll ... (read in full...)

I have no idea how to break up with my boyfriend of 3 years!

Q.   I am in a serious dilehma. I haven't slept more than three hours a day for what seems ages, and I think about it every single waking moment and it's eating a lot of my energy and leaves me exchausted everytime. The problem is, I have been thinki...

A.   8 September 2009: Well that's quite a dilemma. A way I could suggest is to write it all down. From how you feel about him to why you don't think it'll work. If then you can't bring yourself to tell him write him a letter, but to be tactfull make sure you're there ... (read in full...)

Friend is dating my ex, do I have a right to be angry or not ??

Q.   Hey there, ok so i've been with my boyfriend for 2 months, and i recently broke up with him like a few days ago, but i found out that my friend is now dating my ex. Do i have a right to be jealous ?? She's my friend and he's my ex, and personally i ...

A.   7 September 2009: Hell yeah! You have a right to be angry and annoyed. Exes are off limits to and friend worth that label. If she is a true friend she wouldn't be with him. Talk to her and tell her how you feel, maybe put her in your situation. If she doesn't s... (read in full...)

What's the best way to approach him and why is he behaving like this?

Q.   Hey everyone. I really like this guy I’ve been speaking to on the internet for a while. We speak every day online and get on well. I see him a lot more now coz we go to the same college. He’s a really shy guy and he’s told me that he has trouble w...

A.   4 September 2009: I'd say he's just really embarrassed. Talk to him in person when he is on his own, maybe he'll feel a lot more comfortable. Or maybe try and arrange to meet him out of college, just the two of you so you can talk and maybe get to know each other ... (read in full...)

What game is he trying to play?

Q.   a guy i liked has told me he likes me whilst he is still with his gf. he then asked if he asked me out would i say yes? i said he needs to be single first. he then said he has left her though i don't think he has. i didn't hear from him for a w...

A.   3 September 2009: I am answering as a boy. I know from experience that your true feelings tend to come out when you are drunk, hense why he has asked you when he was drunk and not sober. Where he wants you to see him 2/3 times a week and you not see other guys tell... (read in full...)

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