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30-35,
anonymous
writes:dear rock and roll,if you read this message please, please answer this as i guess you were named before as rif raf?i really appreciate your answers.so please please and please reply to my question.and let me know if you are really rifraf.but i remember that every single day i came to this site i didnt find your given answers,were you out somewhere? my question is silly(i know,but i want some of the load out of my mind).i remember some days ago,i saw a boy when i was in my balcony,(i was just out of the bath keeping my towel to dry.)then i saw him staring at me.i felt it was an unusual kind of a stare.some days later i fell in the same situation,but this time he sent a flying kiss to me.i hadnt expected this though.even now when i am on the road or out somewhere,he notices me and keeps staring.now this is the situation i was in 2 or 5 days before,i had been to a shop to buy some gifts for my sister (as it was her b'day),i saw the boy passing the street by the road.as i had spotted him first,i just ignored him.but that very moment he came into the shop in which i was ,and sat on a stool beside me.and as i mentioned,i had gone to a gift shop,there were many things,such as toys,etc.among which he found a bonocular,and started looking at me through it and i was just sitting beside him!(waiting for the shopkeeper to pack my gift).now whenever he sees me he stares and stares and keeps on staring as if i were a ghost! in your opinion do you think he is in for me or just fooling about?one more thing id like to mention here,then if he is for me why is it that he weswalking down my street with a different girl by his side?that too sometimes having an ice cream or sharing an umbrella...? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009): Hi
Get over yourself!!! At this young age, you want someone like that guy in your life??? It's a combination of hormones, and attraction! Is this the first time you've had any attention from the opposite sex??? Well, it will be the first of a long long long line that will last your entire life!!! So, move on... and stop this infatuation at once. You are young, don't you have friends and stuff??? And if you are ready for a boyfriend, then why don't you choose someone who looks deep into your eyes?? Don't walk past him...RUN AWAY!!! And if his behavior continues, tell your elder brother or your DAD. Ok??
And for God's sake, DON'T TAKE HIM SERIOUSLY AT ALL.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2009): I think he's got a bit of an obsession with you for some reason, and i wouldn't rule out the possibility that might have bought some binoculars to spy from a distance (his behaviour in the shop could've been a hint). If you catch him spying on you or he continues to make you feel uncomfortable, i think you should tell an adult that you can trust about his behaviour. As for the girl, she could be his sister, friend, or girlfriend, who knows?? but i wouldn't worry about that. Just do your best to avoid this weirdo, don't put yourself at unnecessery risks, alway's take a fully charged mobile phone out with you, be safe and stay one step ahead always. Rr!
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (9 September 2009):
 I'm not rif raf or rock and roll, but I think that he obviously enjoyed seeing you damp and in a towel and is trying to be flattering in his crude and immature way.
I would continue to ignore him.
Whether he likes what he saw or not, would he have noticed you if you had not been damp and in a towel?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2009): I agree. SOunds weird and imature O_O
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reader, gunnerlil  +, writes (9 September 2009):
He sounds weird to me.
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