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writes: a guy i liked has told me he likes me whilst he is still with his gf. he then asked if he asked me out would i say yes? i said he needs to be single first. he then said he has left her though i don't think he has. i didn't hear from him for a while and then out of the blue he turned up at my house drunk on crutches due to a rugby thing. i asked what the sod he was doing late at night when its raining and drunk. he said 'putting my mind at rest, to ask me out without an aid would be impossible because im quite imtimidating boyish and confrontational.would you let me see you 2/3 times a week and not seeing other guys?' what does that even mean? i told him to ask me when hes sober. he said if he asked me sober would i say yes? i said i would, i saw him the day after.he never asked me out and i haven't heard or seen him for 3 days. opinions please what game is this boy playing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2009): As I know from experience you have more confidence when you're drunk especially with relationships, and that's probably what happened that he liked you but couldn't admit it sober, and well, if he was drunk he probably forgot even coming to your house and saying he'll see you the next day : ) xx
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reader, gunnerlil  +, writes (3 September 2009):
I am answering as a boy. I know from experience that your true feelings tend to come out when you are drunk, hense why he has asked you when he was drunk and not sober.
Where he wants you to see him 2/3 times a week and you not see other guys tells me he's had a bad experience with a girl before. Maybe he's been cheated on. My advice would be for you to approach him and ask him out front, that is the only way you will get the answers you so desire.
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reader, Discostu333 +, writes (3 September 2009):
He sounds like a typical rugby jock after sex and you seem to be falling for it. Don't do it! I have loads of female friends who have fallen for guys like this and the results are never pretty.
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