Why didn't she ever call back?
Q. I met a girl in one of my college classes, and slowly I began talking to her more and more. After class one day she asked me if I wanted to go to dinner with her within the coming week. Unfortunately, she ended up being busy. I tried setting up ...
A. 15 May 2010: I would wait. That she was the one asking you to go to dinner with her is a good thing. If you try and push too hard, you may push her away. There may have been a reason why she didn't call back. I would not call her again, just wait until you see ... (read in full...)
I feel like my existance is useless, can anyone help me feel better about life?
Q. I am 23. Lately, everything has just fell apart in my life. My girlfriend sort of betrayed me, and my family always says how stupid I am. I don't relate to anyone, because at college, it's like I'm invisible. People just act like I'm not there, and ...
A. 14 May 2010: I agree you need to confront everything that's bothering you. Do it tomorrow. Decide that you will use the day to try and change things to the better for yourself. Your existence is not useless at all! But it's you that holds the key to your ... (read in full...)
The guy I fancy told my friend he thinks I am unattractive! How can I get over him?
Q. help! I like my semi-friend (he's a guy) but he doesn't like me back. in fact, he told one of my friends he finds me unattractive! how can I get over him?...
A. 14 May 2010: Don't waste anymore time thinking this way about someone who doesn't feel that way about you. Move on and you'll find someone in the future who appreciates you. Trust me, you'll save yourself a lot of hurt :)... (read in full...)
Worried that my fixation on him will ruin our friendship!
Q. I have come to University and in my first year. I have met this person (male) and I feel we get along very well. But over the last 3-4 months (ive known him for 6 months) I constantly worry about him, what he is doing and always want to be around ...
A. 14 May 2010: There is no easy way to control your emotions other than spending time apart from this friend. Even then, it is very painful. If they don't share your feelings then you risk losing the friendship, and that is a huge risk! You would feel terribly ... (read in full...)
How can I tell him I'm interested, I'm just not confident enough!
Q. Well now I have a bit of confusion with a guy at work. I think he is really attracted to me as I have lots of attention from him, glances, stares, etc. We laugh at each other's jokes and banter and it's like we are the only two people in the r...
A. 14 May 2010: I know, it can be really difficult liking someone you work with. Usually you can sense if someone likes you, and it seems you can feel that. The thing is, if you told him, and he didn't feel that way, it could be really awkward for you at work. You ... (read in full...)
Does my lecturer have feelings for me?
Q. I have a crush on my lecturer at university, i find myself thinking about her all the time, I know its wrong but i look for reasons to speak with her and see her i cant help it, but shes in a relationship and i would never dream of ruining this, or ...
A. 14 May 2010: I would just enjoy it from afar. Don't do anything about it. It could cost them their job, and it's just not worth it. If they don't feel that way, it could be very awkward for you also. She may just like you, but not as a crush. Try your hardest to ... (read in full...)
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