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I miss him yet I don't miss him at the same time!

Q.   i made my ex a friend. he seems not too enthusiastic about it, even when he had begged for it for a long time. i thout i loved him so much when he was gone, but now that he is back in my life am not too sure about it. neither is he...though he sends...

A.   24 March 2011: Remember he is your ex for a reason. If being friends is causing you distress it may be possible you may need to stop communicating for a few months to get over the break up. Think to your self. “if my ex started dating someone right now would it ... (read in full...)

He's too busy for a relationship but wants to have sex with me

Q.   I have this friend at uni and we have kniow each other for a while 2 years. We like each other and there is a lot of sexaul tension between us. I want to be with him and be his girlfiend but his actions confuse me. He says he is too busy for a re...

A.   24 March 2011: I agree! Don't give into having sex. He plainly told you what he wants and he means it. By having sex you agree to his terms and conditions. ... (read in full...)

I like him but he's ignoring me, how do I get him back?

Q.   Hi guys. Me and this guy really like each other. We have been hanging out as friends for the last six months. A couple of months ago, he started working two jobs and I have not been seeing him as much. So we haven't been hanging out like we used...

A.   24 March 2011: Someone needs to break the ice. He may have felt you totally ditched him in front of all of his friends and that may have been embarrassing for him or showed him how little you care for him. Guys have feelings too. Either way be the bigger person. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend went out without me again and there is more...disrespectful!?!

Q.   I have been dating a guy for about a year now. We spend about a 1/2 a day together each week due to his career. I try to be understanding but admit I often feel lonely and there is a lot of tension. The relationship feels one sided. We typically ...

A.   21 March 2011: Thank u Chigirl for ur response. This time is the final break up & I am not going to be suckered in again. There is no need to call/text. I know him enough after fights he does not call but I always end up calling him. This time it will not ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend went out without me again and there is more...disrespectful!?!

Q.   I have been dating a guy for about a year now. We spend about a 1/2 a day together each week due to his career. I try to be understanding but admit I often feel lonely and there is a lot of tension. The relationship feels one sided. We typically ...

A.   20 March 2011: Thank you for your post. I agree with you all. I really need to move on & stop wasting my time. I am almost thirty & I do not want to invest anymore then I already have with a man that is clearly not wanting more then a cheater would or that of a ... (read in full...)

Been married for 29 years, we're more like room mates than man and wife. The sex is dull and I'm tired of everything..

Q.   I have been married for 29 years to the same woman. We have been more like roommates than spouses. We are growing further apart. The sex is an exception rather than the norm. I am at the point I am tired of this life. Because of religious beliefs ...

A.   19 March 2011: Have u thought about going to see a couples therapist? ... (read in full...)

I was a narcissistic b*stard. I owe her full closure.

Q.   Before I start I'm asking that you guys don't answer with remarks like you deserve it, leave her alone because what -m trying to do is needed because she needs to know I'm living up to my wrong. Its like this I hurt a really great gal awful bad. ...

A.   19 March 2011: I agree, if you care let her go. It is not about your guilt but about her healing and you both moving on.... (read in full...)

Should or can I ever trust her again? she's had a more colorful past than I knew.

Q.   i'm 34 and she's 21. We're married for 15 months. we're fated, have everything in common. however, a few weeks back i asked her which friend she talks to most about stuff. she said no one really, and certainly would never spill details abou...

A.   19 March 2011: Facts of the past should have been discussed before making a legal contract in the eyes of the law, your families. At this point I would just be like the past is the past, I don’t want to talk about previous encounters/boyfriends and not air dirt... (read in full...)

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