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Is it wrong that I like girls?

Q.   I never liked guys before. I always just thought I wasn´t old enough. Recently I just finished my first year in High school. This past year I found myself liking girls, I even kissed one! None of my friends or family know. Is it wroong that I like ...

A.   2 July 2011: First, there's nothing wrong with liking women. It might be a bit soon to just assume that you're a lesbian however. Have you never felt attracted to a guy at all? Perhaps you just haven't met a guy that you liked yet. But on the other hand, if it's ... (read in full...)

She says she wants to be friends but I feel like she is blowing me off all the time!

Q.   So, dated this girl a while back, but I always tried to keep in touch. She said she wanted to still hang out and stuff, but she never initiates contact.(none of my friends ever contact me, not unless they need something or something bad has ...

A.   2 July 2011: It sounds like she really is blowing you off. You know she is. But the good news is you do not need her. If she'd rather do other things then that's whatever. I think you should leave her alone for a while, maybe once you start distancing yourself ... (read in full...)

Should I set my heart on this one girl if I am doing 'bad guy stuff'?

Q.   Hi everyone, basically i need some moral advice on how to act to women. I'm 18 and so far have been lucky enough to be in love twice. I was with my first girlfriend for 18 months, i was head over heels, wanted to have a future and all that..th...

A.   2 July 2011: I think you should definitely set your heart 100% on Kari-ann. If you have really strong feelings for her then it only makes sense that you go after her. If you're really serious about her then I'm sure that you'll stop doing "bad guy stuff". You ... (read in full...)

My best friend is blowing me off for a guy I hate!

Q.   My best friend is dating the one person I DETESTE and I'm cool with that but she keeps using the same excuse every time I ask her to go somewhere 'oh I'm ill' or 'I had a bad night's sleep' and really all she's doing is blowing me off so she can go ...

A.   22 May 2011: In my opinion, if she's treating you poorly then you should cut back on inviting her out. A real best friend would make time for you at least every now and then. If I were in your shoes I'd take a break from her, you deserve to be treated better ... (read in full...)

She won't give oral sex because its dirty

Q.   I'm dating this girl, who has told me she'll do anything for me. However, she won't give me head because it is dirty.. meanwhile I give lots. How can I go about getting head and is it normal to feel bad for her reason? And I'm very clean, medically ...

A.   22 May 2011: I think you should talk to her about it. It's a little unfair that you perform oral sex on her but she won't return the favor. I think the best way to go about it is to let her know how you're feeling but if she still refuses then eliminate oral sex ... (read in full...)

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