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Should I get my boyfriend a gift for father's day (even though he isn't the daddy)... ?

Q.   I don't know if I should get my boyfriend a gift for father's day. i know he isn't my father. but we just had our 1st baby 2 months ago, and he is a really good daddy to her. He also works and supports us. I just want to let him know he's ...

A.   13 June 2007: If you don't celebrate father's day with him, he won't care, seeing as how he's not the father. But, if you plan on letting your child believe that he's the father, then go ahead and celebrate it, to make the situation more authentic for both you, ... (read in full...)

The woman I am crazy on has just found out she's pregnant with her ex's baby.

Q.   Hi i am looking for advice about the situation i find myself in. I have recently been sleeping with a 22 year old woman {i am 17} and i have fell in love with her. It started off as a bit of fun but over time my feelings have changed. The problem is ...

A.   13 June 2007: You need to break up with this girl. For starters (at least where I'm from), you're underage. You're much too young to know that you're in love and much two young to be raising two kids (that aren't even yours at that). Break up with her and move ... (read in full...)

I'm worried about his depression and want to be there for him but I can't handle being his 'soul mate' while he is with someone else.

Q.   It has been 2 months since my boyfriend broke up with me. We were together for 3.5 years and the break up came totally out of the blue. The reason was that despite being great together we had drifted apart and had different drives in life. We were ...

A.   13 June 2007: Just because he dates someone else doesn't mean he's over you. In fact, he could be dating her to try to force himself to get over you. Do not feel bad that he moved so quickly into being with someone else. The male brain does not work the same as ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is very relaxed about his personal hygiene

Q.   My boyfriend is very relaxed about his personal hygiene and is quite happy to have only one shower a day in the morning regardless of what activities he has been doing during the day and only cleans his teeth in the morning too. I am the opposite ...

A.   13 June 2007: There's nothing wrong with showering once a day. Lighten up a little. As for the "going 24 hours without showering," that's not true. In 24 hours after his last shower, it will be time for a shower again. You're thinking approximately 12 hours ... (read in full...)

Was/is he interested in me? If not, how am I to move on? If so, what should be my next move?

Q.   So I've had a crush on this guy from school for about a year and a half, beginning last Spring semester. We talked from time to time then, nothing big. Over summer we emailed each other all the time, hung out a couple of times, again nothing too ...

A.   13 June 2007: The shy types rarely make the first moves. You're going to have to make it - either asking him on a date or straight-up asking him how he feels. It's hard for any two members of the opposite sex to spend an excessive amount of time around each other ... (read in full...)

My ex-girlfriend wants to get back together... but we have no sex life together!

Q.   My ex-girlfriend wants to get back together, which is great, we get along perfect except one thing... we have no sex life together. We dated for a couple years and it began to break down when it felt like it was going to be a long term commitment. ...

A.   13 June 2007: If she had a normal sex life outside of a relationship with you, then it's not her "fear of commitment" holding her back from sleeping with you. If you're satisfied in your current relationship, then stick with it, since you seem to have a hard time ... (read in full...)

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