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The first time

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31 August 2010: the first time a guy beats you up is definitely not the last.l was in the most abusive relationship with a guy whom l thought loved me.well news flash he did not.he slapped me once and later on said that he was sorry and l believed him. l should ...

The first time

Q.   the first time a guy beats you up is definitely not the last.l was in the most abusive relationship with a guy whom l thought loved me.well news flash he did not.he slapped me once and later on said that he was sorry and l believed him. l should ...

A.   1 September 2010: it so hard to get over an abuser.l still find myself wanting him back but l dont think its love.l think its just like a bad habit(drugs ).you fully understand how bad something is but you still want it.l don't even want to think or accept that he is ... (read in full...)

Why is he doing this? it's breaking up our family!

Q.   My kids father and i have been on and off for 5 years. The past 3 we were going strong, and never broke up until a few months ago.he filled my head with empty promises of marriage and more kids one day. he has cheated on me one but it was for a few ...

A.   1 September 2010: l met up with what l thought was an awesome guy but later learnt that he wasnt.l went out with an ex boyfriend of mine during the first week of dating the above mentioned person.we did not do anything with my ex, it was just a simple outing.here is ... (read in full...)

The first time

Q.   the first time a guy beats you up is definitely not the last.l was in the most abusive relationship with a guy whom l thought loved me.well news flash he did not.he slapped me once and later on said that he was sorry and l believed him. l should ...

A.   1 September 2010: thanks sweetheart.you r wise beyond your age.hope you grow up with that mindset and never man to destroy you. love galfrend... (read in full...)

Is it wrong for me to fancy my cousin?

Q.   hi im 17 my cousin is 25 my whole family (all aunts uncles cousins etc.) went out 4 a meal and a few drinks in the hotel afterwards , my family and my cousins family were still there late in the night when i was going i said goodbye 2 my cousin and ...

A.   31 August 2010: its so wrong that it will never be right.you are related so its incest.l think there r a lot of nice guys out there waiting to date people they r not related to.come on gal. love galfrend... (read in full...)

Should I Get Back With Him?? So confused..

Q.   i just want a little bit of help and advice please. i am still stupidly in love with my recent ex boyfriend, we have been broken up for a few months and during this time we have always kept close contact as 'friends' but still had the relation...

A.   31 August 2010: guys are complicated beings to us women just as we are to them.l don't think this guy is genuine.he knew that you still had feelings for him but he still went ahead and slept with someone else.by sleeping with someone else he broke your trust.be ... (read in full...)

Do his greedy personal habits warrant me breaking up with him?

Q.   I started a relationship with a lovely man about 4 months ago and it quickly became quite intense. We have both said we love each other and I do think he is a lovely person. He has lots of good qualities, he is financially sound, has a good job and ...

A.   31 August 2010: l think you should tell him but gently without humiliating him if it bothers you that much.bare in mind that he probably has had this harbit much of his life so breaking it would be difficult for a 40 something year old guy.on a lighter note maybe ... (read in full...)

I want to divorce him but I feel guilty for not trying!

Q.   I have been with my husband since early 2008 and we have a 2 year old son and when i was pregnant i set up a fake profile of this 'hot' chick to test him. It was sneaky but all he had to do was say 'thanks but no thanks, my partner is pregnant' etc, ...

A.   31 August 2010: nobody knows your situation better that you do.you are the one who is frustrated and hurt by a man whose is supposed to be gentle and kind to his wife and mother to his child.what l suggest is that if you are willing to go for counseling and he is ... (read in full...)

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