Some thoughts on retroactive jealousy
Q. I was thinking about my wife's past (again) and experiencing retroactive jealousy. I'm trying to root this out of me. It is the wise thing to do. Anyhow, I want to know what others going through this think of what I'm about to write. Recen...
A. 16 February 2013: Remember, women do not equate love with sex. Sex is a tool for them to get what they want: children, affection, understanding, etc.
She equates love with your non-sexual behaviors such as how you treat your kids, your thoughtfulness towards ... (read in full...)
How to deal with my sex-addict girlfriend?
Q. I never thought this would be an issue, but my girlfriends is sex addict. She wants to have sex at least two times a day or as much as possible. I mean our record is 8 times a night. So to my problem. I really enjoyed this in the first few moths ...
A. 15 February 2013: There is an actual medical condition, largely affecting women, where there gentials are in a constant state of arousal. You should look it up. I believe there is a treatment.
I don't know if that is what is going on here, but there is a distinct... (read in full...)
My boyfriend married someone else a few weeks ago. Should I listen to his words that we could be together?
Q. my boyfriend got married to some other person few weeks back. He says they are not staying together, and he still tells me that he loves me and want to be with me forever and will marry me. i am not getting what to do I am not able to go away ...
A. 13 February 2013: He is toying with you, possibly to keep you on the side for sex. Move on. Do not respond to his attempts to contact you. He is no longer your boyfriend-he is now a husband to someone else.
You need some therapy if you cannot see the need to ... (read in full...)
LDR--is it normal for him to masturbate every day?
Q. My fiance and I are on a long distance relationship due to work. We see each other twice o thrice a month (on weekends). My concern's that he masturbates almost every day ( I know because he sends me pics and we talk about everything in our ...
A. 13 February 2013: Just once a day? You need to know that if men got a nickel for each time we turned the crank, there would be no poverty in the world.
Yes, it is normal and healthy. Hopefully he is fantasizing about you while in the throws of his self-ple... (read in full...)
My husband talks to 5 women daily but does not care about me
Q. I have been married 15 years and it has been rocky but I am working on me and fixing me and letting him do what he needs to do and we are doing better. But I still am working on some jealousy issues. He has 5 lady friends he likes to talk...
A. 13 February 2013: You are letting him dump on you as an attempt to hold it together. Your intentions are pure and you have a good heart, but you seem naive. Men do not have female friends. At least not those they talk to daily on a personal basis. I suspect your ... (read in full...)
Should I allow him to "brand" me with a tattoo? He's 24. I know he will not take me back if I refuse.
Q. So, me and this guy have just been through a break up, our relationship was a little rough around the edges mainly because he's 24 and I'm 16. I know I know, forget about the age a second. I'm really desperate to get him back and he says I need to ...
A. 12 February 2013: Run away from him as fast as you can. No real man would ever ask a woman to do something so demeaning. He would not only be a terrible partner, but imagine how terrible of a dad he would be.
RUN! You are young and have lots of time to find som... (read in full...)
Why do men go to massage parlors? Is my husband a sex addict?
Q. Just want to find some answers, my boyfriend went to a massage parlor and want to find out why men go to these places? he says he doesnt know. I am wondering if he is a sex addict? Does he really love me? how can he when he went there? If there is ...
A. 12 February 2013: I am disappointed to see so many women who do not understand the male physiology. Men are built to breed with as many women as possible. We were not made to be monogamous. It is a struggle every day to remain monogamous for those who are. ... (read in full...)
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