I'm realizing that I'm clingy, needy and selfish. What can I do about the state of my current relationship?
Q. I'm 36 and didn't realize that I was clingy and needy and selfish to my own needs until January 3rd 2013. I've been like this for as long as I can remember (needy and clingy)and never realized it until my boyfriend and I started having some serious ...
A. 18 January 2013: There's no point anymore. He decided to let everyone tell him how to live his life and broke up with me last night. Now I'm stuck in this freaking house with him for at least another month until I can move. I'm so sick of being the bad guy in ... (read in full...)
I'm realizing that I'm clingy, needy and selfish. What can I do about the state of my current relationship?
Q. I'm 36 and didn't realize that I was clingy and needy and selfish to my own needs until January 3rd 2013. I've been like this for as long as I can remember (needy and clingy)and never realized it until my boyfriend and I started having some serious ...
A. 11 January 2013: Here's my problem though; I'm not ready to give up yet and if he decides that he wants to continue the relationship do I stick with it or do I let go and move on? I'm more then willing to put any advancements in our relationship on hold until he... (read in full...)
He wont move out of his mother's house despite being in his mid 30's, is this a subtle message telling me I'm not enough for him?
Q. In a long distance relationship. My love is in his mid 30s. Due to a family tragedy, he has had to live with his mother. Problem is, it's now a couple of years after the tragedy and still lives with mom. I want him to be with me so we can start ...
A. 11 January 2013: From my own experience with a similar relationship I had, he needs his mother. My ex-husband lived with his mom for many years and I didn't see this until after we were married but he wanted to be with someone who would take the place of his mother. ... (read in full...)
What I did destroyed my boyfriend. Now, how do I comfort my boyfriend?
Q. Hi! Well, this is going to be a long long story. I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years, we're both our firsts everything. We normally get along great, share the same hobbies, same college (but different careers), etc. Now I'm 19 and he's 21. ...
A. 11 January 2013: If you both agree that you love each other and want to fix your issues I say the best thing is to go to counseling together. The only other option is to let him go. If he loves you and wants to be with you, when he's ready to try again he will come ... (read in full...)
Is change possible? What can I do to persuade my abusive husband to change?
Q. My husband is very controlling and abusive. I don't deserve to be treated this way. I left, thinking he would miss me and stop the abuse but he is just as bad if not worse. He still calls me names and degrades me. He accuses me of cheating on hi...
A. 11 January 2013: I was engaged to a man that was the same way as your husband. I have to say from my experience (I have had over 20 relationships since I was 15) if he is accusing you of cheating, he's cheating on you. He's accusing you because of his own gilt.
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I'm realizing that I'm clingy, needy and selfish. What can I do about the state of my current relationship?
Q. I'm 36 and didn't realize that I was clingy and needy and selfish to my own needs until January 3rd 2013. I've been like this for as long as I can remember (needy and clingy)and never realized it until my boyfriend and I started having some serious ...
A. 11 January 2013: Well I've got two more days before he comes home and the suspense is driving me crazy. I truly HATE the unknown. I'm the kind of person that is very curious and like to ask a lot of questions. For those that are close to me, they know how I like to ... (read in full...)
I'm realizing that I'm clingy, needy and selfish. What can I do about the state of my current relationship?
Q. I'm 36 and didn't realize that I was clingy and needy and selfish to my own needs until January 3rd 2013. I've been like this for as long as I can remember (needy and clingy)and never realized it until my boyfriend and I started having some serious ...
A. 10 January 2013: To the male anonymous, LOOK, I don't need you telling what I already know. I know what I did and yet you still don't know the whole picture with my kids. My post is about me. Not them. I know I was wrong but I can't change the freaking past buddy. I ... (read in full...)
A needy, clingy woman got my man. How come this happened?
Q. I am so through with relationships and men. I am an independent woman, smart, beautiful and keeps myself busy never clingy. Met a good guy and helped him, even when he didn't have a job and no money, but now he's run off with a clingy girl. What ...
A. 9 January 2013: There is nothing wrong with you. You should never change for someone else to get them or keep them in your life. That way of thinking is wrong. If they can't except you for who you are then they don't need to be in your life. Ask yourself this qu... (read in full...)
I'm realizing that I'm clingy, needy and selfish. What can I do about the state of my current relationship?
Q. I'm 36 and didn't realize that I was clingy and needy and selfish to my own needs until January 3rd 2013. I've been like this for as long as I can remember (needy and clingy)and never realized it until my boyfriend and I started having some serious ...
A. 9 January 2013: Okay WOW! Back up! Just like one of my friends you have read into my post more then what is there. My late ex - boyfriend was not the father to my children. Nor was the state we were in our home state. My children have the same father and it was his ... (read in full...)
I'm realizing that I'm clingy, needy and selfish. What can I do about the state of my current relationship?
Q. I'm 36 and didn't realize that I was clingy and needy and selfish to my own needs until January 3rd 2013. I've been like this for as long as I can remember (needy and clingy)and never realized it until my boyfriend and I started having some serious ...
A. 9 January 2013: Janniepeg, Thank you for your comment. I've been working very hard on understanding why I do the things I do, working on how to change the things that need changing, and getting to know who I really am. In only a few days time I've already learned ... (read in full...)
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