What can I do to help my wife reach orgasm?
Q. I have been married for 2 years now. My wife is Japanese. I can't make her cum. When we have sex we can't try different position because I hurt my wife. I just wanted to know how we can help and work out this problem and what can I do to help the ...
A. 13 November 2005: I'm going to give a few options but without more info these are hints and you'll have to see what works for the two of you.
First - don't think that you have to 'make' her cum, this is probably pressurising her, and there's nothing like feeling ... (read in full...)
What can I do to get Sam to pay attention to me?
Q. There's this really lush lad called Sam that was at my college, but now he's left and gone to this other college! I really really like him and I still see him around. I phone him and that, but he never knows who I am. How can I get him to notice m...
A. 12 November 2005: You phone him but he doesn't know who you are - do you mean that you call but don't speak to him? How did you get his phone number if he doesn't know you? Be careful, it sounds like your feelings for him are making you behave a bit obsessively and ... (read in full...)
The distance between us is worse when my boyfriend gets depressed. How do I help?
Q. I'm currently in love with a Marine who has many challenges in his life. He is still a reservist so we don't see each other much. He does devote every Sunday to see me. However, he is going through a lot of emotional challenges with his family and ...
A. 12 November 2005: You are helping him already by just being there, and it sounds like he is doing the best that he can right now to give you some of his time and affection. He probably needs some time out to think and be alone when he's feeling depressed, try not to ... (read in full...)
Why won't he let me get my things from his house? Does he secretly want me back?
Q. Dear Cupid, My ex-boyfriend of 2.5 years recently broke up with me because of his stressful job and me not being understanding. Anyways, he wouldn't answer my phone calls for a few days after, and then I would get so sad that I would call him f...
A. 12 November 2005: He is certainly sending you mixed messages. It is hard to know what to say without better understanding why you broke up - you weren't understanding of his job can mean you made reasonable demands that he didn't want to fulfil, or that you were ... (read in full...)
In the 15 months I've been with him, I've been overtaken by sport and school in importance!
Q. I need help. I've been with my boyfriend for 15 months. He is the love of my life. I would do anything and everything for him. I actually want to marry him. In the beginning of our relationship, he was absolutely amazing. But lately, he doesn't seem ...
A. 12 November 2005: I have had a relationship in which I was less important than hobbies, work etc., but my boyfriend didn't realise it. Here your boyfriend knows exactly what he is doing and has actually TOLD you that you are not important to him. That is such a ... (read in full...)
What's the best way to tell my ex that the boys and I are moving in with someone else?
Q. Hi, I am a recently divorced mom of 2 small boys. My ex husband is still trying to get me back, but he has been harassing me, and has somewhat of a pyschotic problem. He has accepted that we are divorced finally, and we have come to an agreement on ...
A. 12 November 2005: You are divorced. He has no rights over you. You are free to get on with your life. Get legal advice if you are worried about the legal situation. In fact, my understanding is that he doesn't even have rights over the boys - it is they who have ... (read in full...)
I love my best friend, but she doesn't want me!
Q. How do I get over loving my best friend? We have been doing stuff together for over a year and I told her I loved her but she doesn't feel the same way. Now she is trying to do everything to show me that we can never be together. When I ask her what ...
A. 12 November 2005: 1) She has given you her answer, and there is no other choice but to accept it. You are pressuring her and you have no right to do so - stop.
2) She is not a good friend (and therefore not a friend). If she were she would be upset at having t... (read in full...)
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