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This is more of a vent than anything... your opinions are appreciated.

Q.   I've read a number of posts on here about loving devoted men who are struggling with sexual frustration stemming from their loving partner's lack of interest in sex. So many people say do this, do that and be patient yet most of the questions se...

A.   31 October 2008: I agree with Cowboy about being honest about how it is making you feel, bad enough the physical problems of a lack of intimacy for a man but the emotional problems are of note too. If you do not tell her how you feel then things will continue as ... (read in full...)

My mum just confessed to me that she and my husband have been sleeping together!!!

Q.   I really need some advice on my very complicated situation! On September 8, my mother who is my best friend also, confessed to me that she and my husband have been sleeping with each other, from the time we started dating up until i got pregnant ...

A.   30 October 2008: http://www.bipolarworld.net/ Bipolar world webiste. If you go into the chat rooms you need to bear in mind that people in there are in varying stages of managing their condition so might not give balanced views but the friends and families... (read in full...)

This is more of a vent than anything... your opinions are appreciated.

Q.   I've read a number of posts on here about loving devoted men who are struggling with sexual frustration stemming from their loving partner's lack of interest in sex. So many people say do this, do that and be patient yet most of the questions se...

A.   30 October 2008: I am in the same situation and I am a woman. When my partner and I met we both had high sex drives so it seemed a match made in heaven. His waned due to his deprssion, body image problems, possibly age (he is 9 years older than me, and other ... (read in full...)

Breaking up with her didn't go as planned!

Q.   I wanted to break up with my girlfriend for a while. I went to my ex (who is was first my gf) for advice tips for breaking up (nicely) and she told to call my gf. I called my girlfriend to ask her for a ride home. When she got to the house my ex ...

A.   29 October 2008: I think to be honest by the way your ex acted she still has feelings for you and wanted to hurt your girlfriend. She knew the situation and had given advice on the best way to break up nicely with someone and tehn deliberately threw a spanner in the ... (read in full...)

I called my girlfriend my ex's name while making love... BIG MISTAKE!!!

Q.   My girlfriend (for a year) and me were making love and I call her by my ex's name (they're names sound similar)by mistake. She flips out saying I'm still thinking of her sexually (I do think of her but only as a friend and nothing else.) She started ...

A.   29 October 2008: It is difficult for her at the moment as she has had this happen before with the result that someone was cheating on her so you must try and understand it wil take her some time to seperate the two different events. What was a simple slip of ... (read in full...)

If he was serious I would - but is he?

Q.   Hi ive been speaking to my ex bf for most of the day today trying to help sort out his problms with things anyway one of the last conversations we had i asked him if he felt any better he replyed yes as ive talked to you, i asked him again and he ...

A.   29 October 2008: I think that if he was serious he would have finished with this other girl and taken time to get his head together before approaching you. If it is just the physical act you are both after then maybe he was serious but if you are thinking in terms... (read in full...)

My mum just confessed to me that she and my husband have been sleeping together!!!

Q.   I really need some advice on my very complicated situation! On September 8, my mother who is my best friend also, confessed to me that she and my husband have been sleeping with each other, from the time we started dating up until i got pregnant ...

A.   28 October 2008: Bless your heart it must be so difficult. If you want to stay with your husband for your childrens sake then your either need to settle into the relationship without an intimate side to it as you cannot bring yourslef to be with him after the huet ... (read in full...)

I found out my fiance was unfaithful.

Q.   Hi, I found out my fiance was unfaithful. We haven't spoken since. I feel that I need to be told if the whole 8 years we were together was a lie, that when he told me he loved me it was true. I sent him a text explaining that if he ever cared for me ...

A.   28 October 2008: I am so sorry to hear this and can totally sympathise. The need to know why is such a huge one but frankly I do not know that he could ever give you a satisfactory answer. I know you must feel very hurt right now and want to know why this has ... (read in full...)

How can I breach the sexual subject with him?

Q.   How can I breach the sexual subject with him? My boyfriend and I are both pretty inexperienced in relationships, but him a lot more than I. He's never kissed a girl and so were going slow and haven't kissed yet, but we've had some pretty intimate...

A.   28 October 2008: Hi :) To be honest I think you are missing out a wonderful step when cuddling goes straight to touching crotch. I think it is fine to try and talk to him but he may get a little embarressed even though to get an erection would have been perf... (read in full...)

Open relationship... what does this really mean?

Q.   I have become very good friends with a man I met on the internet. We have the same likes and dislikes. We talk every day on the phone and sometimes twice. We have seen each other twice. He is a long haul trucker. But we live only 30 minutes away. We ...

A.   28 October 2008: As far as I understand it an open relationship is one that is not exclusive. So if you don't want anything transmitted I would make sure you take all necessaryu precautions when you are with him. This may not be how he means it though he might me... (read in full...)

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