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He gets too nervous to have sex. What can I do to help?

Q.   I recently got together with this guy. He's older than me by 3 and a bit years and lives away so whenever he comes to visit we get physical. Our first time was amazing. He did go soft twice but he got it back and later he confessed it was...

A.   28 November 2011: Condoms, do not feel great at all, takes a lot of pleasure away, I recommend kimono micro thin, they worked the best for me. Just the time alone to put a condom on can give you enough time to go soft, maybe put it on for him, it may work better as ... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend and yet, I find myself longing to be with a woman!

Q.   I am in very happy relationship with a man thats been going on for a year and 4 months and yet I'm longing for a girl! I really need help because i am having feelings against Everything i have previously said about being bisexual! I previously wrote ...

A.   28 November 2011: Talk to your man about it, that's all you can do... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has trouble staying hard, how do I help?

Q.   My bf, which I have been with 4 months now, has trouble staying hard when we have sex. Most times he will get hard for a few seconds but at that point I am not wet yet so I have to get lube and by the time I lubed him up it just goes away. We tried ...

A.   28 November 2011: Many guys experience this, take one night and just do oral, he gets you off and you get him off. This will give him the confidence he needs, contrary to popular belief, if your guy is stressed, has something on his mind, anything going on in his ... (read in full...)

I can't simply tell her I lied, can I?

Q.   Hi everyone, really need some help here. My and my girlfriend just got into an argument about trusting each other (I told her I didn't trust her fully because I have trust issue, I told her I had been cheated on- which wasn't true) and I think we ...

A.   28 November 2011: Man up and tell her the truth, coming from experience, she will condone you for coming thru with the truth, if she really cares about you. Maybe you have a trust issue for another reason, tell her why, that's the only reason she will even begin to ... (read in full...)

I feel he did not respect my 'No" when he requested anal sex and I have refused that and his other request. I don't know enough about it, like does it hurt?

Q.   My boyfriend has recently requested anal sex, and he has also said he would like to ejaculate on my face. When he first asked if we could have anal sex I said no. I have tried it before (not actual sex, but similar) and didn't really enjoy it....

A.   28 November 2011: Anal is best slow, and lots of lube, have done with my current gf, but, there's some foreplay needed. As for cumin in your eye, not a great idea, semen contains chlorine, acid and base, also your eye, other than your eyebrows, eyelashes and tears ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend spoils me to the point where its become uncomfortable!!

Q.   So ive only been dating my boyfriend for a few weeks now, but i feel like he spoils me entirely TOO much, as selfish as that sounds, in a way it kind of makes me feel helpless like im incapable of doing anything myself. I told him about it, and he ...

A.   28 November 2011: From a male reader, I think it's in our DNA to spoil a girl we really care about, for me I spoiled my girlfriend for a long time, had recently hit a rough spot, unemployed and now she has a great job and is able to help me, I'm grateful, but trust ... (read in full...)

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