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I love my boyfriend and yet, I find myself longing to be with a woman!

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Question - (25 November 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2011)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am in very happy relationship with a man thats been going on for a year and 4 months and yet I'm longing for a girl! I really need help because i am having feelings against Everything i have previously said about being bisexual! I previously wrote a question about bisexuality and me beliefs of them not being:

Greedy

Wanting a 3some

Never being happy in a long term relationship/ wanting the other gender

Not being faithful

I really believed that these were all stupid stereotypes that we're true and didn't think I would ever fall into these categories. However I am super happy with my bf and we get along great, do stuff together; normally and sexually, I can say there is nothing wrong there at all.. BUT I LONG FOR A WOMAN?

I just want to be with a female, I would never cheat on my bf and I don't want a 3some or to break up... I just don't know how to get over wanting a woman!

Has anyone else had this problem? What should i do? :/ help!

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A male reader, Flightfrk02 Canada +, writes (28 November 2011):

Talk to your man about it, that's all you can do

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A female reader, AuntyAlexxmo United Kingdom +, writes (26 November 2011):

AuntyAlexxmo agony auntTo start with I'm glas that you now see those stupid ideas about bisexual people for what they are: Rubbish.

You have a simple choice, if you want to stay with your boyfriend then you need to put these thoughts to the side, still excepting them as part of who you are, but knowing you cant act on then at this time.

If you find it too hard not to act on them then you may need to consider if your current relationship is really everything you want, you are still young and part of that is explore who you are.

What you do is up to you and I hope its not too hard.

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