Is the 5-years gap too much between us? Is it too soon for us to have sex?
Q. I am a 15 year old teenage girl who is in a loving relationship with a guy who is 20. I will be 16 in 3 months and he will be 21 next month. We really want to have sex but I don't know if it's too soon and if he is too old for me? ...
A. 8 August 2005: you have really just answered your own question if there is just the slightest doubt in your head then you obviously aint ready to start a sexual relation ship. when the time is right you will know and there will be no negative thoughts regarding ... (read in full...)
I like to fantasise about other women, but I'm still sure that I'm straight and my bf doesn't understand!
Q. My fiance has found out that I have sexual fantasies about women and now he thinks I am gay. He doesn't believe me when I tell him that it is just a fantasy. I don't think I could ever be with a woman physically, but I do enjoy fantasising about ...
A. 18 May 2005: These fantasies you are having are all a part of growing up and perfectly normal.... (read in full...)
Orgasm is so easy when I masturbate... why can't I do it when I have sex?
Q. Since the first time I had sex, I have trouble reaching orgasm. I can do it when I masturbate, but it is a lot harder to due during sex. What's wrong with me, why is it so hard to cum during copulation?...
A. 18 May 2005: only you know what really pushes your buttons share it with your partner so he is aware of exactly what you like and dislike... (read in full...)
When we're apart, I keep worrying that my b/f is going to find out he's too good for me...
Q. I keep questioning the relationship between my boyfriend and I. I analyze every little thing he says in letters, emails, on a site we both use, on the phone. I don't do it as often when him and I are together in person. I'm not sure what to make ...
A. 18 May 2005: stand in front of a mirror and take a good long look at yourself girl, thinking of evrything you have to offer, love, companionship, passion, personality, looks etc.....you'll soon see it aint as bad as you think you just need to give yourself a ... (read in full...)
We've tried everything and I'm ready to go, but I'm afraid I'm making a mistake!
Q. Alright friends I could do with some sound advice. You see I have been with my b/f for nine years. He's not a bad bloke but I really think I need to get out of this relationship for financial security. I can't fault him, but he just won't show ...
A. 18 May 2005: girl power and all that lark, id say. if he wont leave, make a stand and go yourself let him know that you are serious. you obviously can not carry on the way things are you need to take control of your life. your life is what you make of it... (read in full...)
I'm worried that my boyfriend doesn't seem to pay as much attention to me lately...
Q. I feel like my boyfriend doesn't pay as much attention to me as he used to in the beginning of our relationship. What do I do to get him to pay more attention to me? ...
A. 18 May 2005: its just a way of life hun it happens to us all after the initial geting together and wining and dining. your man knows he has you and feels secure therfore feeling that he does not have to try so hard... (read in full...)
I think my bf cheats all the time... but then he convinces me that I'm nuts!
Q. Please help!! I feel like I am losing my mind! I have been with my partner for over 4 years and living with him for about 2 years. He cheated on me badly at the begining of the relationship which I am convinced was going on for about a year; in...
A. 18 May 2005: who knows eh but your relationship will never last while you are still holding onto the past. stag doos and falling asleep in a gutter is one of those things in life that men just do. im sure you have seen it before when you walk home from a night ... (read in full...)
Things between us go well for a while, then my boyfriend turns nasty...
Q. I don't understand my boyfriend lately. Things are going so good for us, then he turns out like an animal and treats me awful, IE answers me nasty, makes me feel like I cannot do anything right. I don't say anything or complain. He always wants to...
A. 18 May 2005: maybe you should try talking to him, try and find the cause of these outbursts. is it jealousy etc? either way whatever the reasons you need to tell you`r boyfriend that his behaviour is not acceptable and he should seek professional help. all too ... (read in full...)
The more he hides his phone, the more I suspect that he's hiding something!
Q. About sometime last year I found out that my b/f had found other friends while I was overseas studying. there were cell phone messages from these women declaring their undying love for him, and he told me that they were just "hopefuls" - he never ...
A. 17 May 2005: I had this problem myself with my partner not so long ago, he didnt go over seas or anything but he was a complete chatroom addict and forever had women ringing and texting him as i dont live with him and could not watch his evry move i was ... (read in full...)
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