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My boyfriend abuses me

Q.   ok my boyfriend has a problem he's constantly physical with me. actually he hasn't been recently, but in the past he's severely injured me. well injured me enough to where even weeks and weeks had passed i still had marks and my skin where i've had ...

A.   4 October 2007: You don't have a mental problem, sweetie. You are just full of hope, and wanting to believe the best of people - that's a good thing. But get out of this relationship. Now. You know you have to. You will never really feel better till you do, and the ... (read in full...)

Am I to blame for messing up our relationship?

Q.   i have a boyfriend. he is older than me for about 7 years. at first our relationship is so good. but the dilemna came when the time that my x-bf texted me and he's the one who receives it. he asked me who is he and because i get nervous, i lied to ...

A.   4 October 2007: He is being a jerk!! He would have gotten mad whether or not you lied, because he doesn't want you and your exbf to text... it's not good to lie, I know, but you were in a tough situation and you made it right. So if he is keeping up the quarrel ... (read in full...)

It makes me sick to my stomach that she slept with a man!

Q.   I am a lesbian in a new relationship with a woman who just told me that a couple of months before meeting me, she had slept with a childhood guy friend, gotten pregnant, and had an abortion. She was depressed and lonely and feeling lost and ...

A.   4 October 2007: Hey, sweetie I think you need to understand more about why the story freaks you out so much; I mean, think about it, she didn't yet know you, she wanted emotional/physical closeness, he was a friend -- sounds just like a gentle, one-time, thing -- i... (read in full...)

I have feelings for a same sex teacher

Q.   Right i'm at high school in year 10 and suddenly have got these feelings for a female teacher. I'm not a lesbian because i've had loads of crushes and 2 boyfriends. It's really weird though, i dont want to feel this for someone of the same sex! Is ...

A.   4 October 2007: Don't be freaked out by the same sex thing -- desire is complicated!! (be glad you CAN be attracted to people of both sexes... it's a cool place to be -- double the choice!) BUT be freaked out by the teacher bit... crushes on teachers hurt, and ... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and fancy a boy who is 11 ~ Is this wrong?

Q.   I am a 15 year old girl and fancy a boy in who is 11. Would it be wrong if we went out? ...

A.   4 October 2007: It's not wrong to fancy anyone.... but it would be unwise to follow this one up (fancying is one thing, child abuse is another... he's a child!!! -- only half-joking...) Why are you so drawn to him..... think about this, maybe.Does he idealize you? ... (read in full...)

I am 13 and think I am bi. I like both girls and guys! I am so confused!

Q.   Hi, I'm a guy but I'm not sure about things anymore. I fancy this girl in my class (I have for about a year) but she barely knows I exist. I do like her but that's not the only problem... I think I'm bi. I know there's nothing wrong with that ...

A.   4 October 2007: Hi, First things first: it's totally okay to be "bi" -- it's not the gender of the person you desire that matters, it's how you treat them -- and how you treat yourself. Where do you live? Try to see if there's a hotline around that would allow you ... (read in full...)

He thinks it's a chore for him to go down on me, should I find someone else to satisfy my needs?

Q.   hi im a sexy 22yr old,with a great body,nice curves and a bronze tan.i been with my boyfriend for 2yrs and from the very first night he went down on me and has enjoyed doing it,recently he has started to make it feel like its a chore he used to ...

A.   4 October 2007: Hey, girl -- you should DEFINITELY find someone else -- a lover who gets bored/falls asleep (!!) when he goes down on you is not a lover ... it may be time to put him on the back burner.. it sounds as though you'd have other options...... (read in full...)

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