I'm an introvert who needs friends and socializing. Any advice?
Q. I feel that I'm an close minded and introvert person. I keep failing to be friend with people for a long period of time. I'm just feeling hard to agree or accept if there's differences between. Sometimes I'm just feeling so lonely and isolated ...
A. 3 March 2012: well you are better off than most....you are well aware of your faults and know the problems they cause you.
we all have much inner work to do, we must always strive to be better people. you are half way there already being that you can see your... (read in full...)
How can I tell if my friend likes me as more than just friends?
Q. We've known each other for nearly two years, I've always liked him from day one but he had a long term gf so obviously done nothing about it but they broke up 6months ago. Now we are both single we spend a lot of time together hanging out and we ...
A. 3 March 2012: you know even from what you said it sounds like he likes you in a more intimate way.
take the plung! or spend forever wondering! what are you going to do!?
why dont you have a night in watching a movie with a bottle of wine get all cuddly and g... (read in full...)
He says to leave him alone but tells me he likes me!
Q. Hi everybody. I need help. I have known this guy since October. I like him but didn't realize how much till all this happened.To make a long story short, I sent him an email I thought he wanted to hear but didn't.It's a long story then sent him ...
A. 21 June 2009: are you really 26-29?
i think purhaps you scared him off - he said, "i like you"
and was proabaly exspecting you to say pretty much the same - if you went over the top declearing your undieing love for him then no doubt he had second thoughts.
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I can't tell my parents I'm gay. Should I move far away?
Q. Well i´m gay and i cant sum up the courage to tell my parents. what should i do? i could move away, very far away. Or should i just stay single my whole life. i want children though, even if they are adopted. i dont want to live life scared....
A. 18 June 2009: i had a friend about your age, we all knew he was gay and we kept telling him but somehow he was the last to find out!?
everyones gay these days and proud of it,maybe if this was the thirtys id have diffrent advise, (stay quite - see a priest -... (read in full...)
My wife's dad died she's so upset..I want to help her but I'm not sure how to!
Q. Hey everyone! Ok i'd like a little advice because i feel so bad not knowing what to do or say. 2 Weeks ago my wifes dad died. The funerals was last week etc and after that she seemed to be alright. Well not alright but she was coping.. I think i ...
A. 18 June 2009: A romantic gesture...
Surprise her with a dinner or romcom movie night. Say to her it doesn’t matter how she feels or what she thinks, you’ll always be there, even if she doesn’t believe you will, you will, always.
Tell her this, kiss her a... (read in full...)
Running out of time....
Q. Ok, I will try to make this as short as possible. I have been with my current boyfriend for about 8 years now. There was a period of time that we werent together and I was seeing another guy. This guy( who i will call romeo) was the perfect boyfrien...
A. 18 June 2009: contact romeo - your feeling are telling you to do that so you should - simple.
feelings are silly - they dont think or know or care about sense but we all know if we dont listen and respond to our silly feelings they get sad and so do we.
i... (read in full...)
She's screwed in the head. Why does she do his?
Q. This is not help for me, i just really want to know what you guys think is going on in this girls head. I guess im usual old curious george. I know it has absolutely nothing to do with me, but ive been dragged into the situation and so has my ...
A. 17 June 2009: sounds like,like most of us,she just wants to be noticed - by as many people as possible aparently! with little or no regard for the feelings of others.
i think with time people with slowly cut their ties with her as they lose patients with her... (read in full...)
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