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What is there to know about me...

First off, im the quinessential nerd; Math nerd, Computer nerd, Obscure reference nerd, video game nerd, general science nerd, etc. And im not ashamed of any of it.

Im very introverted, with extroverted skills. I can present myself well, i can be very charming, im also and good listener and if theyre willing to listen i can give very thought provoking advice. But on the inside, im used to being alone with my own thoughts.

Im a bit of a "Ham and a half". Im not afraid to put myself out there for the sake of fun. This is somewhat rooted with my lack of self-esteme and modesty, but maybe people can call me the life of the party (if i choose to).

Despite a very jaded and sarcastic attitude, my inner nature is that of self-sacrificing good guy. Much of the time, im characterized as such, "you would make such a good boy friend", "your gonna a make some girl very happy". But unfortunately, ive hardly every given the chance to put this into practice. Im perpetually trapped in the "Friend Zone".

Although, ive reach the status of boyfriend before, all of them ended with tradegy or eventual rejection. On the inside, i may be heart broken, cynical, and depressed, but that does not mean i have given up on love. Im just not searching as hard.

Maybe someone will find me, maybe luck will finally be on my side. Time will tell...

Too shy to call

Q.   so im 16, never had a girlfriend, but i finally found a girl that i like a lot and cant stop thinking about. Im pretty sure she likes me, but its so hard to tell how much she does. I go to an all boy school and she goes to an all girl school, and we ...

A.   27 April 2011: Go for it, kid. You dont want to live with the regret. After all, she just might say yes. Whether you sound nervous or shy, the fact that you're talking to her will show plenty of confidence. Just call and I do wish you the best of luck, friend.... (read in full...)

Bipolar nice guy looking for love. How much bad luck can a person take?

Q.   At this point, I don't know what to do anymore. A bit of background: I'm a 22 year old virgin, a nerd in many areas, afflicted with Bipolar Disorder, have had nothing but failed relationships, and a "Nice Guy". So you can kind of see what my pers...

A.   31 July 2010: Sigh, I really dont like being 'that guy' who tries to bump up his post but i really would like some more opinions. I dont know what to think anymore...... (read in full...)

24 (almost 25) and has never had a boyfriend!

Q.   ok,I'm a 24 year old female almost 25. I've never had a boyfriend, and I've never had sex. Lately I've been depressed because I feel I have a good personality, and should have found some one by now. I have always been a tom boy. I am obese, but ...

A.   28 July 2010: I agree with everyone here, health is important. yeah you can count calories and carbs, but its portion control that can be the biggest enemy; i know that my biggest hurdle with my obesity. But along with physical health, think about your mental h... (read in full...)

How do I get guys to look at me as more than just a one night stand?

Q.   Okay so I'm a 18 years old girl, I consider myself as a okay looking girl but I do have a serious problem that just makes my self-esteem really low. I never had a boyfriend. Guys just aren't interested in me (except as a sexual object or something ...

A.   28 July 2010: I will admit that I am 22 and a virgin as well, not that i want to be but because I've never been given the chance. Feeling ashamed of myself as less of a man, crying till i eventually fell asleep; I was, and still very much still am, in the same ... (read in full...)

Bipolar nice guy looking for love. How much bad luck can a person take?

Q.   At this point, I don't know what to do anymore. A bit of background: I'm a 22 year old virgin, a nerd in many areas, afflicted with Bipolar Disorder, have had nothing but failed relationships, and a "Nice Guy". So you can kind of see what my pers...

A.   27 July 2010: Well, I am an excellent listener, and very patiant person (if that counts for anything). I hardly make topics about me, i find others much more interesting, but im also not afraid to answer any question asked. And like i said, i can be very ... (read in full...)

We adore each other and have been good for each other but I can't be intimate with him because I'm a lesbian

Q.   Hi there everyone, I really need some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and I absolutely adore him, I love him. But I'm a lesbian. I've been with girls, had relationships with girls and I'm unable to be in...

A.   9 May 2010: As someone who is afflicted with Bipolar Disorder, i can sympathize with both of you. This situation is far from easy with even the average person, let alone someone in your position. Paranoia is an enemy of all mental illnesses but honesty will set ... (read in full...)

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