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I don't want to choose sides so how do I handle this situation?

Q.   I have two sisters one is 18 and one is 17. Harley is a great sister and has a 4.0 in school and Brandi is an alright sister too because I never see her, she's never home and she's doing really bad in school. Brandi lies all the time to my parents ...

A.   19 April 2009: You should call a family meeting and confront your mom and your sister Harley on being so belligerent and arrogant and confront Harley on her childishness. You do not have to choose sides because none of it is your fault. Your sister Brandi prob... (read in full...)

Senior problems regarding ejaculation!

Q.   I have just started a new relationship, we are both in our 60s. We are deeply in love and extremely passionate, however, he can't ejaculate. He is on mediction for hight blood pressure. So when we make love we just go on an on because nothing ...

A.   19 April 2009: He probably can not ejaculate because he has some built up stress on himself or he is just a little bit tense. If he is taking those high blood pressure pills, try going to the doctor and switching to something with the lease bit of side effects. ... (read in full...)

Issues with sister..can anyone else relate?

Q.   Hoping for some help here and thank those who reply. I am in my forties and am seven years older than my sister. I have an older brother and am the middle child. Long ago, I accepted the fact that my sister and I would probably never be friends. We ...

A.   19 April 2009: Why don't you two just sit down and have a talk about you guys' similarities and also about the way you feel about her reminiscence on the past. Find something you guys both like and do it . She might say her way is better, but yours may be safer. ... (read in full...)

I'm bi, but I'd like to try a relationship with a man without hurting him

Q.   i consider myself bi, but like girls better. since 13 i thought i was gay, but part of me still like guys. but im ALWAYS mean towards guys im interested in. whenever im attracted to a guy, i'd be nice and sweet to him but when he falls for me i'd ...

A.   19 April 2009: Try going out with this guy at your work place and see how it all works out. You do not have to immediately be girlfriend and boyfriend, you both can just start out as friends and take everything steady. You never know what might happen between ... (read in full...)

After splitting up do you still have a soft spot for that person?

Q.   when you split with people, do u always have some sort of soft spot for them after uve split with them, I still have for my ex after we split in october and im not sure if it was normal, I no i still talk 2 him even tho he has a gf And i w...

A.   19 April 2009: Yes you do and it is completely natural not to you, but to everyone else. When you love someone and you guys break apart there is always still going to be some chemistry still there between you two. I don't care if you guys break up, say you hate... (read in full...)

Husband always cheating and then askingfor forgiveness!!

Q.   Hi, my husband and I, weve been married for 6 years but b4 we get married we are boyfriend and girlfriend for 9 years. It was started since when some of his cousins (girls and boys) living with their house for how many years. Since then ive noticed ...

A.   19 April 2009: I know that you love him, but you have to leave him because if he keeps doing the same thing then he is not sorry it all it is just a way to get the monkey off of his back so he won't feel so guilty. Face it, if you stay with him this same thin... (read in full...)

How to flirt someone in person?

Q.   Hi everyone I see a lot of Caucasian girls in Bangkok especially in the shopping mall. some of them look cute and I really want to start talking to them. But the problems are that someone comes with their parents and I'm afraid to talk to them beca...

A.   19 April 2009: Hasden or whatever your name is, it is okay to feel a little insecure sometimes, but the point is you should not let your insecurities get to you because it will just make you more unconfident and feel more uncomfortable in your body. If you know... (read in full...)

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