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male
age
30-35,
*asden
writes:Hi everyoneI see a lot of Caucasian girls in Bangkok especially in the shopping mall. some of them look cute and I really want to start talking to them. But the problems are that someone comes with their parents and I'm afraid to talk to them because of their parents. And also some of them comes alone with friends I'm still really shy to talk to them, I'm always afraid they will ignore me because they think I'm a thief or something like that.Well I don't really know what to do even how much I want to talk to them or say Hi to them but I'm really shy because They will ignore me and it's gonna be so embarrassing for me. I feel like I'll bother or annoy them. For example, If you're shopping in somewhere in Bangkok and there's a 16 years old boy who you don't know walks and says Hi to you, How will you react to him ?And Can anyone tell me how to talk to them in person politely because I really wanna talk to one of them or maybe ask them if I can show them around the town ? I don't feel very confident at all P.S I had a girlfriend but met on internet it's differentxx
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reader, dumdum5g  +, writes (19 April 2009):
Hasden or whatever your name is, it is okay to feel a little insecure sometimes, but the point is you should not let your insecurities get to you because it will just make you more unconfident and feel more uncomfortable in your body. If you know you like a girl and you really want to talk to her, go for it. Every girl likes a gentlemen and every girl likes to meet new people. Im fifteen and if a 16 year old boy approaches me and says "Hi", I will immediately start a conversation with him not just because he was being a gentlemen, but because he made me feel more approachable. So try it!!!! And also stop being so unconfident-Beauty is only Skin Deep.
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reader, Hasden +, writes (19 April 2009):
Hasden is verified as being by the original poster of the question No They're not my type and They think the same way of me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): IT's a bit weird to approach someone randomly in the street. You have to be in a music shop and say that you like the same music or somehting
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reader, Hasden +, writes (19 April 2009):
Hasden is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you Kellyxx and It's okay
What about people who are not in holiday ?
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (19 April 2009):
 If it was me you were approaching I would say no as people on holiday don't want that! And parents don't trust anyone abroad so there is no point in talking to them, not everyone is open minded. Sorry. X
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): Try meeting someone at school, or somewhere you often go, because if you go up to random ppl and you seem nervous, the likelyhood is they will be too! Also don't talk to them when there parents are there, they will be protective!
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