Husband always cheating and then askingfor forgiveness!!

A female age 41-50, *hein writes:

Hi, my husband and I, weve been married for 6 years but b4 we get married we are boyfriend and girlfriend for 9 years. It was started since when some of his cousins (girls and boys) living with their house for how many years. Since then ive noticed that one of his girl cousins always come with him and hug him and i think the girl that time was 16 years old until one time when i came to their house i caught the girl hugging him i ask my husband and said why she's acting that way? he replied that the girl was asking a favor about her project so it was ok ive never think anything against them. until one time my husband ask for forgiveness coz they had sexual relation but we were married already that time and because i love him so it was Ok. But the big problem that i couldn't take is that everytime he will come home from a long journey coz he is a seaman is that asking for sorry coz he always telling me that he had a sexual affair with the other girl. and he always insisting that he just want to be honest. It's hard to accept this kind of honesty.... And so I feel stupid and martyr. how can i overcome this kind of feeling? thanks in advance and God bless!!!

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