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My best friend is flirting with my boyfriend!

Q.   When I first met my best friend I thought she was the most sweet adorible person in the world, but I'm starting to change my mind... Yesterday I invited her and my boyfriend to go swimming with me and she was non-stop flirting with him. she even ...

A.   20 March 2012: As you noticed already, your best friend does not at all behave like a best friend! After her "I thought you were going to break up with him?" it is clear, that she tries actively to hurt you. If i were you i would dump this 'best friend'.... (read in full...)

How could he not know my name?!

Q.   So a few weeks ago I decided to go on criagslist personals. I came across an ad for a guy and decided to reply. We exchanged pictures, and hit it off instantly. We began emailing eachother back and forth every day for about a week and then he asked ...

A.   20 March 2012: I think your gut feeling is right, something is wrong with this guy. That he doesn't remember your name after you spoke for WEEKS by e-mail and text, exchanged pictures and agreed to meet could mean he is talking to several girls at the same time, ... (read in full...)

When he confessed it wasn't what I thought it would be!

Q.   I am 24 and I met this genuinely loving guy at a charity organisation which helps disabled children get into sport. Anyway, we started dating 9 months ago and he has asked me to move in with him. I agreed and am in the process of packing my stuff. ...

A.   13 March 2012: Money and being rich can be a blessing, but i think more often it is a curse. He needed to be sure you want to be with him for who he is and not for his bank account. That's why he hid that truth from you for 9 month and felt surely bad for it. It ... (read in full...)

An otherwise wonderful relationship, but my partner doesn't get physical with me anymore. What should I do?

Q.   Whether you are single/living together/engaged or married, after a certain amount of time, the honeymoon phase passes, and you are both true to yourselves and really get to know each other. You find that you are very happy in your relationship, ev...

A.   1 March 2012: I understand how you feel, but I think this is a tricky problem. If he put on weight he may just not feel attractive anymore and this causes then all the issues, it has nothing to do with him not loving you anymore, he may just feel embarassed to ... (read in full...)

B/f wants me to move in with him. Do I have to be the one to make all the changes?

Q.   my boyfriend of 2 years wants us to live together, with me moving into his house and then his idea is we split all the bills 50 - 50, including me paying 1/2 his rent. He feels it is not convenient for him to move in with me because my place is ...

A.   28 February 2012: My first thought when reading your post was: Don't do it! Your boyfriend sounds selfish, he wants you close, pay half his (!) costs and isn't ready to compromise because he doesn't want to disrupt the kids lives. All the inconvenience would be... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my mom's boyfriend's son what should I do?

Q.   My mom's boyfriend's son and I really love eachother but don't know what our parents will say. They are not married so there shouldn't be anything wrong with that. What should we do?...

A.   27 February 2012: The answer would depend on the circumstances, but you did not give us much information to work with. For example: how old is your mom's bf's son? do your mom and her bf live together? for how long are they a couple? for how long are you two in l... (read in full...)

Should I go to a party in which my boyfriend's friend failed to invite him?

Q.   My boyfriend's friend invites me to his wife's baby shower. Should I go? His friend stopped talking to him and answering his phonecalls for resons we both don't understand but he keeps sending me random messages to wish me merry christmas, happy ...

A.   27 February 2012: It sounds very odd, as if he would send the messages to you in a hope to create strife between you and your boyfriend. I would definitely try to find out in any case what's going on there. To answer your question, I think from a loyalty point of... (read in full...)

My mother is constantly reminding me of my age and the fact that I'm single. I just want her to stop and to leave me alone.

Q.   I will be turning 26 this year and I'm single. Personally I'm ok with that. I figure as long as I'm living my life and enjoying what I do, the right guy will come along. I'm not in a rush But my mother on the other hand is constantly remin...

A.   27 February 2012: You have the right mindset, it's the only way to find happiness in life, to know who you are and what you want (and need) to be happy. Don't let your mom change that! Because she does not understand the negative effect it has on you, you need to ... (read in full...)

An argument over opening doors has led me to question my feelings for him, am I being crazy or over-sensitive?

Q.   I have been dating my boyfriend for just over a year. He's 46, I'm 43. I will admit, I have ignored some small "yellow flags", but there are many, many good qualities about him and I also know that there is no "perfect", that I, myself, am not ...

A.   23 February 2012: Honestly, i think you are actually completely over-reacting. You have been with him for over a year, he has many, many good qualities and even opened the car door for you during this time, because he felt like it and loves you. You say yourself... (read in full...)

Do I stay with my sick ex, or go with my new love

Q.   I am driving myself crazy and feel like I am tearing myself into two!! A few months back I left my ex because I had really strong feelings for another guy and felt I couldn't be with my ex because it wouldn't be fair on him and I really wanted to ...

A.   7 December 2011: I agree with Mariab, you don't know Mr Internet at all. You talked to him, you have a rough idea of him, but you have never seen him in 8 years. Why did you leave your partner NOW? You said it was not fair on him because you have feelings... (read in full...)

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