Why is my fiance talking about his ex to me, just a fortnight before our wedding?
Q. I am supposed to get married in two weeks, however my fiance still talks about his ex and the other night he even started talking about how good the sex used to be and how great it felt.. Is he purposely trying to hurt me? Or is he just not over ...
A. 20 October 2005: This guy has real issues. What he is doing is totally wrong. However, you should be setting the boundaries and telling him that this is out of order. Either he is not over his ex or he is trying to upset you and get you to break off the wedding, ... (read in full...)
Was I just easy sex, or might there be something more between us?
Q. Met a great guy at university, after a couple of months we starting sleeping together. He was my first. Now we live together with friends. He recently split with his girlfriend, and told me he was really confused and lonely and sorry for messing my ...
A. 17 October 2005: Yes.
You know the answer. He is your first so of course you are smitten with him. But you will grow up and realise that sex does not make the relationship. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Keeping tallies on sex and orgasm...
Q. I told my wife that 3 of my ex girlfriends would write down on a calender everytime we had sex. They would put a check mark if they got off. They would put a circle if they gave me a bj. My wife things that was weird and thinks no girls do that, ...
A. 17 October 2005: Mate, that is weird! I have never known a woman to record sex occurrences, and neither have I ever heard a guy say that about a girl.
Why would you tell your wife that anyway? Sounds to me like you might be the instigator of this weird occurren... (read in full...)
Oh no... I got drunk and had sex with my brother!
Q. I am twenty nine years old. Last summer my ex husband had the kids away on holidays and I went to stay with my brother for a couple of days. His wife and kids were away. We went to a party and we both drank a lot, when we came home we drank a bottle ...
A. 16 October 2005: My only advice is that you should NEVER tell any future boyfriends about this.
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I'm good-looking, so why are only the unattractive guys hitting on me?
Q. Lately I have noticed that whenever I venture to a club or bar the only males who seem to be attracted to me or hit on me are unnatractive. I am a good-looking girl and apparently too nice. How do I attract the man for me, instead of Herman Munster?...
A. 16 October 2005: Get over yourself!
The really good looking guys dont go chasing girls because the girls chase them! And you know what? Most if not all of them will be just like you....so preoccupied by looks that once he has shagged you he'll want to find som... (read in full...)
I explained how I feel about his looking at porn, but he still insists he enjoys it.
Q. I am middle aged woman dating a seven year older man for almost 2 years. I recently saw him looking at pornography on the internet when I walked into the room. I was shocked and I tried to explain to him that I felt when you are in a loving, ...
A. 16 October 2005: ALL guys look at porn wether they are in a loving relationship or wether they admit it or not. Men are visual and predatory creatures by nature (doesnt necessarily mean we cheat) and it does not mean that he finds you less attractive or loves you ... (read in full...)
I've got his phone number. Can someone help me with advice on how to ask him out?
Q. I'm interested in a guy who works temp. for the same company I work for. For the past few weeks we've made small talk. He just recently told me that he was losing his job, so I offered to help get him another and exchanged phone numbers. Well, I ...
A. 4 October 2005: Men are very simple.
Ask him out.
He will either say yes or no. If he says yes then you can take it as far as you like.... (read in full...)
Three in a bed and we were all drunk. I swear I thought it was my boyfriend touching me!
Q. I have done a really bad thing and I just don't know what to do! The other night my Boyfriend of 4 and a half years and myself stayed with one of our very close male friends. We shared his bed, which we have done before. I was in the middle. We w...
A. 4 October 2005: This is an awkward situation. Firstly, your boyfriends mate is a scumbag. He knew exaclty what he was doing. He was taking advantage of you, full stop.
This guilt is eating you up and so you have a choice to make, tell your boyfriend or get over... (read in full...)
Is he flirting with me, or just making conversation?
Q. An older guy that I me through work has made statements like " we can have any relationship we want " and " I'm 44...you're 34 .....we are on the same wavelength ..". Is he purely interested , or only flirting? Don't want to read the signals ...
A. 4 October 2005: I'm sorry but pops and xixi are both wrong. This guy wants to have sex with you and nothing more. The fact is he isnt confident enough to seduce you.
I can guarantee that if you approached him and said " look I just want to have a no strings ... (read in full...)
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