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I can't trust my friends

Q.   Hey everyone!! I met loads of new friends when i started secondary but i feel i'm loosing them quite quickly cause they either lie to me non stop or i can't trust them!!They make me feel as if it's my fault when they tell people my crushes or they ...

A.   20 May 2008: i dont blame you, one cant trust anyone these dayss.. my advice don't tell anybdy anything unless u really trust them and know they will keep ur secret if ya dont know dont say anything .... it's better thats what i do... (read in full...)

What do you think? Is he just being friendly or does he really like me?

Q.   Hello, I really need your help because this has been on my mind for years. I really like this guy in my area but he's a lot older than me (20 years older and I'm 19). We get on really well and he's a friend of the family. I don't have any intentio...

A.   14 May 2008: let me know how it goes :)... (read in full...)

How can I make money to help out my mum and dad?

Q.   The price for gas is going up, Food prices are going up, basically everything costs more! So, my mom and dad are getting low on money. But i'm a responsible and GROWING 13 year old [ha] and i'm tired of asking my mom and dad. Plus, summer is comi...

A.   11 May 2008: You can babysit.. i used to make alot of money babysitting go ask neighbors, friends if they want a babysitter.. wash cars you too young :) hopefully you will find a way i wish i could tell you a way but its great that your thinks about your family ... (read in full...)

How do I get better at small talk with strangers?

Q.   As much as I try, when I meet new people have trouble making small talk. Part of it also relates to my confidence (nearly non-existent). What are some good topics that don't make me look overly friendly? And how do I generally improve my confiden...

A.   11 May 2008: go talk make converstations smile to people faces they will come to you and talk.. be nice not too sweet confident because there no reason you shouldn't go talk to people make jokes dress to impress :) girls will want to talk to you.. make sure your ... (read in full...)

I wish we could come away respecting each other at least.

Q.   Well you could say I'm old enough to know better, but even though I'm way past adolescence I still want to know what he must think of me now. I live in a foreign country and sometimes give English lessons. Someone put me in contact with a diplomat ...

A.   11 May 2008: hey! i definitely understand how you feel.however all you could do right now is get past it. what happened happened you can't change it. I think you should ignore your feelings towards and i am not saying treat him as he doesn't exist but you sure ... (read in full...)

I really just want to let myself go with him tomorrow night, but what can I do to stop the nerves?

Q.   Bit of a strange question. Recently, my best friend, who is a guy admitted he was in love with me. We have always had an amazingly intimate and close friendship and I think deep down I have always been in love with him too. He left me a letter...

A.   9 May 2008: awww :) there's nothing to be nervous about.. your in love with him... be in love lol ;) enjoy every minute of it.. i wish i can say something to make you not nervous however all i can say is theres nothing to be afraid of you love him he loves you ... (read in full...)

Do you think he's interested in my best friend?

Q.   Ok, I have a boyfriend (we'll call him Doug) of 10 months who's a great guy and we're very loving toward each other. We were close friends for 2 and half years before getting together. But there's something about the relationship that worries me. ...

A.   9 May 2008: hey! Honestly I think that you shouldn't be worried. to me as long you have the guy and hes with you.. you shouldn't be worried. everyone thinks about other people in some way but he loves ? who he with? you! so don't worry so what he thinks she ... (read in full...)

What do you think? Is he just being friendly or does he really like me?

Q.   Hello, I really need your help because this has been on my mind for years. I really like this guy in my area but he's a lot older than me (20 years older and I'm 19). We get on really well and he's a friend of the family. I don't have any intentio...

A.   5 May 2008: I think you should wait go with the flow.. honestly i think he might have something for you ;] but at the same time.. you don't know for sure.. I would suggest tell him how you feel and find out what he feels for you. it would not hurt.. if its ... (read in full...)

How do I know if I am "moving too fast"?

Q.   my question is how do you tell when to make the next move? cause i was hangin at her house watchin a movie. i put my arm around her for a bref second and she sits up to take a sip of her drink. but she waits intel i move my arm to sit back again...

A.   5 May 2008: Obviously she feels uncomfortable.. take a little more time don't move too fast until you sure she wants you to make a move.. taking time would not hurt anyone =]... (read in full...)

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