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hey every one!!!

Well I am a 18 year old guy. I wrestle for my school. When I

"grow up" I want to be a registered nurse. I'm currently in a very loving relationship. I have been burned by love before and probabally will be many times more. I've walked through the fire befor but I'm still strong enough to be though many times more.

I love him but he loves her!...I cant win!

Q.   I love him so much.He loves her. She loves him. Everybody wins but me. I just can't get over him. He's my best friend and I'm happy for him, on the outside, but on the inside, I'm dealing with the pure agony of it all. I want him so badly but I know ...

A.   27 May 2009: i know what your going through, i fell for my girlfreind six years ago and i never quit loving her, she always came to me with her boy problems and i listened and gave advice, i waited and watched as she went threw bad relationships and good ones. ... (read in full...)

Who's right? Me or Him?

Q.   ok well about a month or two ago, my boyfriend (almost a year) went to the dentist, but when he came back to school a few days later, i was holding his phone for him, and i got a message from his homeboy, who was right infront of me, then it comes ...

A.   17 December 2008: hey This may just be a freind, i think if he really sees you as second best he would probly be with her instead of you sens he knows she likes him. i wouldn't worry bout it to much. hope everything works out for you. goodluck Brad... (read in full...)

A lot of girls like him....Mixed feelings?

Q.   I really like my friend, joe. he doesnt know that i like him though. What i am worried about is if i do tell him and it becomes mutual, there are a lot of girls out there that like him. he's probably the most-liked guy that i know. This worries me ...

A.   15 December 2008: I think you should tell him how you really feel. alot of times people fall for those closest to them. if he doesnt return your feelings now he may soon. good luck, i hope every thing works out well for you.... (read in full...)

Was I wrong when I said what I said? How can I fix things?

Q.   H, i'm in a kinda weird situation and i need ur opinion on what i should do. we've been friends since high school and now we go to the same college. we kinda have a good thing going on for us. we kissed one time and we've been hanging out lots. we ...

A.   4 December 2008: Tell her how you truely feel. shell understand, if she wants it and so do you things will work out. good luck man... (read in full...)

How likely is it that you would get pregnant if you have sex when on your period?

Q.   Hey People, last night my girlfriend and I had unprotected sex, now we're worried that she might get pregnant. She was on her period. How likely is it that you would get pregnant if you have sex when on your period? Any help would be appreciated...

A.   2 December 2008: We both thank you for our help. we have one more question, how soon after sex can @ home pregnancy tests work? an again thank you so much.... (read in full...)

I want to ask her out but I'm not sure how or when I should do it?

Q.   hey, prom is coming up and im going with a freind. there is this girl ive liked for quite a while, weve been freinds for years, recently she told me she likes me but still has feelings for a mutual freind of ours. i want to ask her out but im not ...

A.   24 April 2008: i did it!!!! =) after school the other day i asked her out 2 a movie and were goin this weekend, thanks for all your help.... (read in full...)

I feel really insecure and sad, I really likehim but does he like me?

Q.   I really like him but does he like me? If he asks me out what do I say yes or no? I think he is really cute and bright but others might say eeeewwwwwww you're going out with him and others will say you can't get a boyfriend ha ha! I say I don't ...

A.   23 February 2008: hi, You need to tell him how you feel. follow your heart it won't lead you astray, but it may take you down some interesting paths. Don't let what others might think effect your choises in life, it will only make you unhappy. hope it all wo... (read in full...)

Should I try to find out what his feelings are to me OR should I just leave him alone??

Q.   Ehhhh... I'm COMPLETLY stuck!!! I'm in love with my best friend!!! I don't know if he loves me back but either way I don't know if it would work. His mom hates ne and doesn't want me to hang out with me because she thinks I"m the reason he's sad ...

A.   18 February 2008: hey You should definitely find out how he feels because if you don't you will regret it later. Parents don't like all of their children's friends or spouses for that matter. You only need to do what makes you happy. I'm sure things will work out... (read in full...)

Should I tell my Mom I lost my virginity?

Q.   I recently had sex for the first time but i dont know if i should tell my mum or not, i dont want her hatin me for it, what could i do?...

A.   18 February 2008: hi In my oppinion Tell her but only if she asks. If she doesn't want to know she doesn't need to. hope this helps Brad... (read in full...)

My bf won't kiss me despite of my hints, I'm afraid he doesn't want to...

Q.   hi, im 11 and i know that sounds a bit young but i realy love this lad i've been going out with him for a bit now about 1 mouth but he says hes not the shy type but i have to go first for a hug and i want to kiss him but he wont make the first move ...

A.   18 February 2008: hey First off your are still very young so don't take things to quick. if you really want him to kiss you make the first move, its ok my first kiss the girl made the first move and everything just flowed from there, good luck, brad... (read in full...)

Should I tell him or forget about it and can I confide in my best friend??

Q.   I've got a problem. I'm in love with a very good friend of mine. I hang out a lot with 3 friends of mine but I'm only going to mention 2 of them: Vicky and Colin The more time I spend with them, well Colin, the deeper I fall in love with him. He ...

A.   18 February 2008: Hi I was recently in a similar situation and a close freind of both of ours helped me out.You should definatly tell him. Its not good to bottle up feelngs like this. It can really start toget you down. I would also recomend telling Vicky norm... (read in full...)

Does she like me, to have asked me to the school dance?

Q.   I hve had this girl I like for a while now. we have been freinds for years. I couldn't ge the courage to ask her out. the other day she asked me to the school dance, I said yes ofcourse. Does this mean she likes me? o and while I was walking ...

A.   30 January 2008: First off thank you all for your help. But how do I ask her to be my girlfreind? ... (read in full...)

If a guy asks for a hug does this mean he is interested in me?

Q.   There is a man at work (different departments, we don't see each other every day) that I have been friendly with the past few months and I believe there has been a spark going on (for sure it has for me, not completely sure about his side). ...

A.   29 January 2008: I think it could go either way but most guys don't hug as just a freindly gesture.... (read in full...)

I can’t seem to get the courage to tell her how I feel, as I got hurt in the past for doing this.

Q.   Hey I have known this girl for quite a while. I’ve started to have feelings for her, but I don’t know how to tell her. I can’t seem to get the courage because last time I let someone know I liked them I got hurt. I’ve tried writing notes but I ju...

A.   25 January 2008: yesterday while i was on my way to wrestling she pulled me off to the side and said good luck tonigh and asked me to the dance. We are going together. thanks for all youre advise... (read in full...)

How should I invite her out? - before somebody else does. She's always surrounded by her friends.

Q.   So guys, here's the thing: I know this girl, the most beautiful one I've ever seen by the way, and I got a crush on her. We've played volley together at the club and talked by MSN like 4 times. I was wondering about asking her out, maybe go to the ...

A.   16 December 2007: Ask her at the party. the worst thing that can hppen is she says no. It will be hard, but trust me you can push through the fear.... (read in full...)

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